Thoughts on Co-Workers

[My Name is Nobody]

Big picture, no rush.

Self-control. Let the other guys jump all over her. HB9 does not equal "special". You're surrounded by HB9s (go with me here). You enjoy a hot chick as much as the next guy but you're past the point of it having any major effect on you, either way. If you see her, that's cool, if not, that's cool too. Hell, for you to really get worked up, she'd have to do a lot of qualifying herself to you. She'd really have to show you that she's worth something, and she'd have to take a personal interest in you. She done that yet?

That is not the mindset of 99% of the guys in your office.

yeah.. well I had a perfect opening to go after work girl. Because I actually worked with her years ago at another company when she was married. Then, when I saw her again at the current workplace, I went up and started talking about how we used to work together and she remembered me.

One of the first things she told me is "she just got divorced". LOL, after that, it was pretty much me saying "what are you doing Friday?"

 

[Warrior74]

If your looking for something long term or a girlfriend and you don't care about your job go for it. If your looking to just get some ass and/or you care about your career, leave it alone. That is where you make your money, its not a game.

 

[3countriesPlan]

It's never a good idea. Weigh the pros and cons.
Pro: An Hb bedwarmer
Cons: Bad work environment after break up, you getting fired

 

[My Name is Nobody]

It's never a good idea.

Not true. I know a guy here at work who met a girl they got married and had a family.

 

[martinM.]

You know, this site has really opened my eyes to how different dating is in the US, than other countries.

For instance, in a lot of european countries dating someone you work with isn't such a big deal, and some asian countries it's actually encouraged.