Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Jealousy is an immature emotion. All you accomplish is exposing your own inner game issues.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
grayclif
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It's actually not in her, she's in the guest bedroom.
You can't control who shows up where. What you should have been doing was carefully noting her reaction to the exchange. Was she touching you or standing away when you when the interaction occurred. What was her facial expression during the greeting. The little things... to see if she is really on your team. Did she touch him. Did she laugh at his jokes.
I never talk about exes with my lady friends. I simply don't want to know. I don't look it up on their Facebook or do I ask about. I'm not interested. I change the subject when it comes up so eventually she'll know that this is something I'm not interested in discussing ever.
She's with you because she wants a fresh start. What happened in the past doesn't matter. She should be contantly pursuing you.
grayclif
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Lol. I'm dating one of these unicorns now. I don't know anything about her sexual history but she mentioned she was just out of an 11 year relationship. So far so good. 28yo and an HB7. A little shy, slim tight body and nice breasts. Will meet me when and wherever.
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Jealousy has little place in a relationship, this wasn't jealousy. As I have stated previously I have absolutely no issue with the dude being there.
I was conflicted because this wasn't a situation where I would normally be p!ssed, yet I had to be p!ssed as I had set up the boundary of her 'Being up front'.
The ramifications of not following through with some form of punishment would have been dire.
Moral of the story: Don't drink & sosuave
I was conflicted because this wasn't a situation where I would normally be p!ssed, yet I had to be p!ssed as I had set up the boundary of her 'Being up front'.
The ramifications of not following through with some form of punishment would have been dire.
Moral of the story: Don't drink & sosuave