Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Jealousy is an immature emotion. All you accomplish is exposing your own inner game issues.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
grayclif
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It's actually not in her, she's in the guest bedroom.
You can't control who shows up where. What you should have been doing was carefully noting her reaction to the exchange. Was she touching you or standing away when you when the interaction occurred. What was her facial expression during the greeting. The little things... to see if she is really on your team. Did she touch him. Did she laugh at his jokes.
I never talk about exes with my lady friends. I simply don't want to know. I don't look it up on their Facebook or do I ask about. I'm not interested. I change the subject when it comes up so eventually she'll know that this is something I'm not interested in discussing ever.
She's with you because she wants a fresh start. What happened in the past doesn't matter. She should be contantly pursuing you.
grayclif
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Lol. I'm dating one of these unicorns now. I don't know anything about her sexual history but she mentioned she was just out of an 11 year relationship. So far so good. 28yo and an HB7. A little shy, slim tight body and nice breasts. Will meet me when and wherever.
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Jealousy has little place in a relationship, this wasn't jealousy. As I have stated previously I have absolutely no issue with the dude being there.
I was conflicted because this wasn't a situation where I would normally be p!ssed, yet I had to be p!ssed as I had set up the boundary of her 'Being up front'.
The ramifications of not following through with some form of punishment would have been dire.
Moral of the story: Don't drink & sosuave
I was conflicted because this wasn't a situation where I would normally be p!ssed, yet I had to be p!ssed as I had set up the boundary of her 'Being up front'.
The ramifications of not following through with some form of punishment would have been dire.
Moral of the story: Don't drink & sosuave