The whole 'you should date a Virgin' talk is boring. Get past 18 and a woman is going to have some mileage, it would be weirder for her to have zero mileage.
I 100% agree, but remember this is Sosuave and as I have pointed out in other threads.....most of these guys live in a Cartoon Fantasy world where there are:
- These one dimensional guys called "Alpha Males" who can quote, unquote "get any girl they want" because they quote, unquote "walk around life doing whatever the fvck they want," even riding through all red lights and slapping cops in the face if they try to write a ticket...you know....because they are so bad a.ss.
- Then there's the Beta Males who couldn't put a piece of pvssy on lay-away
- Then of course there's the "super, duper, high quality woman" who is 28, no kids, with a master's, good job, and who only had 1 sex partner her entire life and he was from a 10 year relationship that she just so happened to have gotten out of.
But over here in the REAL WORLD where most guys operate, neither of these three "people" fvcking exist!
I am still deciding what to do with the relationship. I will not have someone whose first instinct isn't to be unequivocally honest. Equally, aside from this the relationship is great.
Well, Playa, I always like to "keep it real" so allow me to do so.
The vast majority of women of this market are liars when it comes to romantic relations. That's just what it is. If a chick tells you she had 3 sex partners her entire life, it's usually 3 or 4 times that many. If a chick tells you her ex was sooooo horrible, it's usually that she was just as much a pain in the a.ss as he was.
So every woman you decide to be "committed to", please understand most of them are full of shyt. So you decide to stay committed to them only if:
- You are getting good sex from the relationship on the regular
- She gives you good companionship
- She doesn't disrespect you by fvcking, flirting, or flaunting guys in front of you.
- She doesn't nag, bytch, or have just a bad attitude which fvcks your day up
If she's cool peeps...then roll with it. But I'm telling you right now, the vast majority of women are liars and if you THINK you are going to be with a chick for any period of time from this market and she's not going to flirt or fvck some other guy WHILE being in a relationship with you (dating or married), you are sadly mistaken.
I tell a chick upfront....I know you are going to cheat lol, just don't LET ME CATCH YOU DOING IT. Which means if you do it, you better do is privately, not in my apartment, and not out in the open. Because once she does that, it's disrespectful and at that point I'm cutting it off. Of course the chicks says, "Tenacity...I'm not like that, I don't cheat!"....Yeah, Yeah, Yeah....whatever bytch lol.
