"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thoughts about David DeAngelo and Double your Dating? [merged threads]

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I remember when i used to read his newsletters in winter 2006 and 2007. David Deangelo was my first source of pickup game. It introduced me to a brand new world.......... a world where money, cars, and good looks were not necessary to get girls. It gave me hope, and as a junior in high school i remember practicing c+F and several of his other spotlight topics. I remember that i was a lost little AFC, and had no game or any idea how to get girls. I thought being nice to them, buyig them gifts, and treating them like a princess was the key to get a girlfriend. I remember i got into Deangelos newsletters because i had a big crush on a girl in my geometry class. He thought about being a jerk and it was truley amazed,( at the time), that this was the way to get girls.


I bought his "double Your Dating" ebook, and at the time i would have given it an A-. Now i give it a D. It covers the basics, and its like more like a pamphlet than an encyclopedia. Just like how to be an alpha male by john alexander its covers a bit of everything, but it has no substance.

I give it a D because its like a basic training manual. It only covers the surface... and doesnt tell you how to be authentic, or how the more advanced nuts and bolts you need to be a Natural. It teaches you to be a verbal robot, a robot who wears a confidence mask to appear like a sex-worthy guy. It teaches you how to go from level 1/10 to 3/10. You learn more from Sosuave.com and RSDnaton.com than that ebook.

I would not recommend it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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