thatfeel
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How the fvck do you read that article and come away thinking she is desperate? I think you need some reading comprehension, lol.She's the desperate one that wants to find someone 31 dates in 31 days , the funny thing is she is the desperate one stupid women.
Bet she skipped over the one dude who actually got her to put out even though "she hates when guys try to fvck her the same night" without paying for anything other than a drink or two...What a cvnt... What a self absorbed, cvnt. If we want a textbook example of narcissistic personality disorder we have found it with this one...
She goes out on 31 dates with 31 men... These men range from investment bankers, CEOs of startups, and NASA scientists... She then criticizes each one, calling him some stupid nickname and judges them for minor things ranging from clothing choice to checking their phone for a game score. She gets a free meal off of all of these men except one who splits the bill... This woman is trying to show gender norms in society, and talks about how men typically pay for dates BUT THEN REINFORCES THESE NORMS BY CALLING A GUY WHO SPLIT THE BILL A CHEAPSKATE. What a hypocrite. She has a list of dealbreakers showing her high expectations including not choosing guys who are under 5'10"... I tried to read her date diaries and they actually made me despise this woman. That and she prades herself in dozens of photos of her date outfits to get attention, so typical of a narcissistic cvnt.
For being so concerned about gender norms in society she sure does not practice what she preaches and has a double standard.
If I ever meet this girl in person I will make sure to do my best to try to knock her off her high horse....
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.