thatfeel
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 5, 2013
- Messages
- 714
- Reaction score
- 186
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How the fvck do you read that article and come away thinking she is desperate? I think you need some reading comprehension, lol.She's the desperate one that wants to find someone 31 dates in 31 days , the funny thing is she is the desperate one stupid women.
Bet she skipped over the one dude who actually got her to put out even though "she hates when guys try to fvck her the same night" without paying for anything other than a drink or two...What a cvnt... What a self absorbed, cvnt. If we want a textbook example of narcissistic personality disorder we have found it with this one...
She goes out on 31 dates with 31 men... These men range from investment bankers, CEOs of startups, and NASA scientists... She then criticizes each one, calling him some stupid nickname and judges them for minor things ranging from clothing choice to checking their phone for a game score. She gets a free meal off of all of these men except one who splits the bill... This woman is trying to show gender norms in society, and talks about how men typically pay for dates BUT THEN REINFORCES THESE NORMS BY CALLING A GUY WHO SPLIT THE BILL A CHEAPSKATE. What a hypocrite. She has a list of dealbreakers showing her high expectations including not choosing guys who are under 5'10"... I tried to read her date diaries and they actually made me despise this woman. That and she prades herself in dozens of photos of her date outfits to get attention, so typical of a narcissistic cvnt.
For being so concerned about gender norms in society she sure does not practice what she preaches and has a double standard.
If I ever meet this girl in person I will make sure to do my best to try to knock her off her high horse....
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.