thatfeel
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thought you guys might chuckle and scoff at this.
- Thread starter thatfeel
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
marmel75
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Just shows how many lame desperate dudes will do anything to go on a date. Its why you can kill it online if you actually have game...they are so tired of going on dates with these dudes, you will stick out like a sore thumb.
What a cvnt... What a self absorbed, cvnt. If we want a textbook example of narcissistic personality disorder we have found it with this one...
She goes out on 31 dates with 31 men... These men range from investment bankers, CEOs of startups, and NASA scientists... She then criticizes each one, calling him some stupid nickname and judges them for minor things ranging from clothing choice to checking their phone for a game score. She gets a free meal off of all of these men except one who splits the bill... This woman is trying to show gender norms in society, and talks about how men typically pay for dates BUT THEN REINFORCES THESE NORMS BY CALLING A GUY WHO SPLIT THE BILL A CHEAPSKATE. What a hypocrite. She has a list of dealbreakers showing her high expectations including not choosing guys who are under 5'10"... I tried to read her date diaries and they actually made me despise this woman. That and she prades herself in dozens of photos of her date outfits to get attention, so typical of a narcissistic cvnt.
For being so concerned about gender norms in society she sure does not practice what she preaches and has a double standard.
If I ever meet this girl in person I will make sure to do my best to try to knock her off her high horse....
She goes out on 31 dates with 31 men... These men range from investment bankers, CEOs of startups, and NASA scientists... She then criticizes each one, calling him some stupid nickname and judges them for minor things ranging from clothing choice to checking their phone for a game score. She gets a free meal off of all of these men except one who splits the bill... This woman is trying to show gender norms in society, and talks about how men typically pay for dates BUT THEN REINFORCES THESE NORMS BY CALLING A GUY WHO SPLIT THE BILL A CHEAPSKATE. What a hypocrite. She has a list of dealbreakers showing her high expectations including not choosing guys who are under 5'10"... I tried to read her date diaries and they actually made me despise this woman. That and she prades herself in dozens of photos of her date outfits to get attention, so typical of a narcissistic cvnt.
For being so concerned about gender norms in society she sure does not practice what she preaches and has a double standard.
If I ever meet this girl in person I will make sure to do my best to try to knock her off her high horse....
MrWood
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instead of dogging her, there is some valuable info between the lines
I've not read all her stories yet, but I read...
men do not initiate enough after meeting/introductions
dont dress under your age
girls have options
dont overthink
be the man and lead
"He sent me three messages too which I never responded. Then he sent me a final message asking me to dinner. That’s when I replied"
I've not read all her stories yet, but I read...
men do not initiate enough after meeting/introductions
dont dress under your age
girls have options
dont overthink
be the man and lead
"He sent me three messages too which I never responded. Then he sent me a final message asking me to dinner. That’s when I replied"
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
marmel75
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How the fvck do you read that article and come away thinking she is desperate? I think you need some reading comprehension, lol.
marmel75
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Bet she skipped over the one dude who actually got her to put out even though "she hates when guys try to fvck her the same night" without paying for anything other than a drink or two...
MrWood
Master Don Juan
again, except for guy paying for everything getting points
read what she REALLY likes, the things that win her and spin her hamster
she even lets some play out, makes moves based on the game, or lack of fake game
"foul mouth" could have banged her, she said he blew it on the 2nd date at HER place
what she says is for the most part what WE in here say to get the girl and how to game the girl
overlook "cvnt" "princess" "desperate" whatever
learn from her
read what she REALLY likes, the things that win her and spin her hamster
she even lets some play out, makes moves based on the game, or lack of fake game
"foul mouth" could have banged her, she said he blew it on the 2nd date at HER place
what she says is for the most part what WE in here say to get the girl and how to game the girl
overlook "cvnt" "princess" "desperate" whatever
learn from her
Bible_Belt
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I always pay. But it's never expensive. I never take a b!tch to dinner, only drinks. Dinner is the stupidest date idea possible. I don't date a lot, but I almost always get laid on the first date. The girl who insists you take her to dinner is the girl who is not giving up sex on the first date.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.