thatfeel
Master Don Juan
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How the fvck do you read that article and come away thinking she is desperate? I think you need some reading comprehension, lol.She's the desperate one that wants to find someone 31 dates in 31 days , the funny thing is she is the desperate one stupid women.
Bet she skipped over the one dude who actually got her to put out even though "she hates when guys try to fvck her the same night" without paying for anything other than a drink or two...What a cvnt... What a self absorbed, cvnt. If we want a textbook example of narcissistic personality disorder we have found it with this one...
She goes out on 31 dates with 31 men... These men range from investment bankers, CEOs of startups, and NASA scientists... She then criticizes each one, calling him some stupid nickname and judges them for minor things ranging from clothing choice to checking their phone for a game score. She gets a free meal off of all of these men except one who splits the bill... This woman is trying to show gender norms in society, and talks about how men typically pay for dates BUT THEN REINFORCES THESE NORMS BY CALLING A GUY WHO SPLIT THE BILL A CHEAPSKATE. What a hypocrite. She has a list of dealbreakers showing her high expectations including not choosing guys who are under 5'10"... I tried to read her date diaries and they actually made me despise this woman. That and she prades herself in dozens of photos of her date outfits to get attention, so typical of a narcissistic cvnt.
For being so concerned about gender norms in society she sure does not practice what she preaches and has a double standard.
If I ever meet this girl in person I will make sure to do my best to try to knock her off her high horse....
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.