So things were going very well the night before last with this girl at my dorm. I decided to wait until the next night (last night) to make a bigger move. I guess this was a mistake. I am pretty sure she hooked up with another guy in the dorm last night. Also, she is friendly in person every time I talk to her and hasn't been a b1tch in anyway yet. Should I still go for her or not?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Thought things were going well one night but she goes for another guy the next night
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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In all fairness its probably one of the following scenerios:
1) Wanted to get some attention but had fallen for the other guy (a true interest)
2) You may have done something irregular or odd which pushed her away
3) May have come off as inexperienced
I'm not implying that you're 1,2,3, in my experience it usually was these 3. Don't sweat it, everyone ****s up and it only makes you better and more aware of your actions and the actions of others. Learn from them and don't blow them off.
I remember when I was really young I dated these hot chick for about 2 weeks. She was really into me, and she brought me to a golf park and made out heavily for 20min, then the evening was called. The next day she called and said I dont think were meant for each other, etc... Turns out I was a really lousy kisser. So I said **** me, I'm going to get this **** down. I popped out tons of books, read through tons of forums and tips, and began practicing with my new gf. Sure enough, it paided off.
But I won't lie, being told that rips you apart.
1) Wanted to get some attention but had fallen for the other guy (a true interest)
2) You may have done something irregular or odd which pushed her away
3) May have come off as inexperienced
I'm not implying that you're 1,2,3, in my experience it usually was these 3. Don't sweat it, everyone ****s up and it only makes you better and more aware of your actions and the actions of others. Learn from them and don't blow them off.
I remember when I was really young I dated these hot chick for about 2 weeks. She was really into me, and she brought me to a golf park and made out heavily for 20min, then the evening was called. The next day she called and said I dont think were meant for each other, etc... Turns out I was a really lousy kisser. So I said **** me, I'm going to get this **** down. I popped out tons of books, read through tons of forums and tips, and began practicing with my new gf. Sure enough, it paided off.
But I won't lie, being told that rips you apart.You guys were just dating and did not have an exclusive label. She has absolutely no commitment to you. Do not blame her. You should also be dating at least 2 other girls as well.Demystify said:
If you guys have a good time together, just forget you saw her with another guy and stop thinking about what they COULD have done because that will mess you up. Do not give up. You are on this board to learn, and I can tell you that most guys DO NOT know what to do with a girl.
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Demystify said:
That is a typical womans life... they have many options so you have a limited amount of time to get in and get what you want cause most times there are men in line in front and behind you waiting to get to the PU$$Y...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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LOL... WAIT YOUR TURN OR TRY TO STEAL ANOTHER GUYS TURN... it does not matter either way you need to be spinning other plates as they say.Demystify said: