So things were going very well the night before last with this girl at my dorm. I decided to wait until the next night (last night) to make a bigger move. I guess this was a mistake. I am pretty sure she hooked up with another guy in the dorm last night. Also, she is friendly in person every time I talk to her and hasn't been a b1tch in anyway yet. Should I still go for her or not?
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Thought things were going well one night but she goes for another guy the next night
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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In all fairness its probably one of the following scenerios:
1) Wanted to get some attention but had fallen for the other guy (a true interest)
2) You may have done something irregular or odd which pushed her away
3) May have come off as inexperienced
I'm not implying that you're 1,2,3, in my experience it usually was these 3. Don't sweat it, everyone ****s up and it only makes you better and more aware of your actions and the actions of others. Learn from them and don't blow them off.
I remember when I was really young I dated these hot chick for about 2 weeks. She was really into me, and she brought me to a golf park and made out heavily for 20min, then the evening was called. The next day she called and said I dont think were meant for each other, etc... Turns out I was a really lousy kisser. So I said **** me, I'm going to get this **** down. I popped out tons of books, read through tons of forums and tips, and began practicing with my new gf. Sure enough, it paided off.
But I won't lie, being told that rips you apart.
1) Wanted to get some attention but had fallen for the other guy (a true interest)
2) You may have done something irregular or odd which pushed her away
3) May have come off as inexperienced
I'm not implying that you're 1,2,3, in my experience it usually was these 3. Don't sweat it, everyone ****s up and it only makes you better and more aware of your actions and the actions of others. Learn from them and don't blow them off.
I remember when I was really young I dated these hot chick for about 2 weeks. She was really into me, and she brought me to a golf park and made out heavily for 20min, then the evening was called. The next day she called and said I dont think were meant for each other, etc... Turns out I was a really lousy kisser. So I said **** me, I'm going to get this **** down. I popped out tons of books, read through tons of forums and tips, and began practicing with my new gf. Sure enough, it paided off.
But I won't lie, being told that rips you apart.You guys were just dating and did not have an exclusive label. She has absolutely no commitment to you. Do not blame her. You should also be dating at least 2 other girls as well.Demystify said:
If you guys have a good time together, just forget you saw her with another guy and stop thinking about what they COULD have done because that will mess you up. Do not give up. You are on this board to learn, and I can tell you that most guys DO NOT know what to do with a girl.
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Demystify said:
That is a typical womans life... they have many options so you have a limited amount of time to get in and get what you want cause most times there are men in line in front and behind you waiting to get to the PU$$Y...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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LOL... WAIT YOUR TURN OR TRY TO STEAL ANOTHER GUYS TURN... it does not matter either way you need to be spinning other plates as they say.Demystify said: