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Thought things were going well one night but she goes for another guy the next night

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So things were going very well the night before last with this girl at my dorm. I decided to wait until the next night (last night) to make a bigger move. I guess this was a mistake. I am pretty sure she hooked up with another guy in the dorm last night. Also, she is friendly in person every time I talk to her and hasn't been a b1tch in anyway yet. Should I still go for her or not?
 

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In all fairness its probably one of the following scenerios:

1) Wanted to get some attention but had fallen for the other guy (a true interest)

2) You may have done something irregular or odd which pushed her away

3) May have come off as inexperienced

I'm not implying that you're 1,2,3, in my experience it usually was these 3. Don't sweat it, everyone ****s up and it only makes you better and more aware of your actions and the actions of others. Learn from them and don't blow them off.

I remember when I was really young I dated these hot chick for about 2 weeks. She was really into me, and she brought me to a golf park and made out heavily for 20min, then the evening was called. The next day she called and said I dont think were meant for each other, etc... Turns out I was a really lousy kisser. So I said **** me, I'm going to get this **** down. I popped out tons of books, read through tons of forums and tips, and began practicing with my new gf. Sure enough, it paided off. :D But I won't lie, being told that rips you apart.
 

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Demystify said:
So things were going very well the night before last with this girl at my dorm. I decided to wait until the next night (last night) to make a bigger move. I guess this was a mistake. I am pretty sure she hooked up with another guy in the dorm last night. Also, she is friendly in person every time I talk to her and hasn't been a b1tch in anyway yet. Should I still go for her or not?
You guys were just dating and did not have an exclusive label. She has absolutely no commitment to you. Do not blame her. You should also be dating at least 2 other girls as well.

If you guys have a good time together, just forget you saw her with another guy and stop thinking about what they COULD have done because that will mess you up. Do not give up. You are on this board to learn, and I can tell you that most guys DO NOT know what to do with a girl.
 

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Demystify said:
So things were going very well the night before last with this girl at my dorm. I decided to wait until the next night (last night) to make a bigger move. I guess this was a mistake. I am pretty sure she hooked up with another guy in the dorm last night. Also, she is friendly in person every time I talk to her and hasn't been a b1tch in anyway yet. Should I still go for her or not?

That is a typical womans life... they have many options so you have a limited amount of time to get in and get what you want cause most times there are men in line in front and behind you waiting to get to the PU$$Y...
 

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So, should I still go for her while the other guy is going for her OR just ignore them and go for her when he's done?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Demystify said:
So, should I still go for her while the other guy is going for her OR just ignore them and go for her when he's done?
LOL... WAIT YOUR TURN OR TRY TO STEAL ANOTHER GUYS TURN... it does not matter either way you need to be spinning other plates as they say.
 

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Demystify said:
So, should I still go for her while the other guy is going for her OR just ignore them and go for her when he's done?

Always go for it.
 
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