"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Yay skinnyguy is gone!! What a troll!"

I've decided that I'd rather spend my time doing things that help me rather than spend time on this site.

PlayHer Man - I know we had our differences, but you always kept it real and I respect you for that.

Solomon - I appreciate the advice you give to people. You are a smart person. Just remember that the number of girls you had sex with does not define you as a person. The conviction you have and things you contribute to society define you as a person.

Marx77 - hang in there man! Sooner or later you'll realize what a great catch you are, and your mindset will change from there.

Everyone else - thanks for your advice. I've realized that what's more helpful to me is to spend my time figuring out ways to make more money. Simply dwelling on my past or insecurities has done nothing, and will do nothing for me. In the end, it's really just about what you prioritize. There are so many things out there you can prioritize and you can't have everything. `
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nor me... my advise to him has been second to non - to focus on him... :cry: :confused:

O well, maybe some day he'll realise that he is his only problem...
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Ban him just to make sure he follows through
I tried not to....:crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
 

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user name said:
In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
Man, men has turened into women. We are all women, women has turned into men. therefore, men and women are synonymous, but they are completely opposite, contradictory. - Facepalm*
 

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user name said:
In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
:up: Where's the *like* button when you need it... Basically this has something to do with "attention seeking" ?? We all know girls and attention seeking go hand in hand... :crackup:
 
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