"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Yay skinnyguy is gone!! What a troll!"

I've decided that I'd rather spend my time doing things that help me rather than spend time on this site.

PlayHer Man - I know we had our differences, but you always kept it real and I respect you for that.

Solomon - I appreciate the advice you give to people. You are a smart person. Just remember that the number of girls you had sex with does not define you as a person. The conviction you have and things you contribute to society define you as a person.

Marx77 - hang in there man! Sooner or later you'll realize what a great catch you are, and your mindset will change from there.

Everyone else - thanks for your advice. I've realized that what's more helpful to me is to spend my time figuring out ways to make more money. Simply dwelling on my past or insecurities has done nothing, and will do nothing for me. In the end, it's really just about what you prioritize. There are so many things out there you can prioritize and you can't have everything. `
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nor me... my advise to him has been second to non - to focus on him... :cry: :confused:

O well, maybe some day he'll realise that he is his only problem...
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Ban him just to make sure he follows through
I tried not to....:crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
 

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user name said:
In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
Man, men has turened into women. We are all women, women has turned into men. therefore, men and women are synonymous, but they are completely opposite, contradictory. - Facepalm*
 

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user name said:
In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
:up: Where's the *like* button when you need it... Basically this has something to do with "attention seeking" ?? We all know girls and attention seeking go hand in hand... :crackup:
 
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