"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Yay skinnyguy is gone!! What a troll!"

I've decided that I'd rather spend my time doing things that help me rather than spend time on this site.

PlayHer Man - I know we had our differences, but you always kept it real and I respect you for that.

Solomon - I appreciate the advice you give to people. You are a smart person. Just remember that the number of girls you had sex with does not define you as a person. The conviction you have and things you contribute to society define you as a person.

Marx77 - hang in there man! Sooner or later you'll realize what a great catch you are, and your mindset will change from there.

Everyone else - thanks for your advice. I've realized that what's more helpful to me is to spend my time figuring out ways to make more money. Simply dwelling on my past or insecurities has done nothing, and will do nothing for me. In the end, it's really just about what you prioritize. There are so many things out there you can prioritize and you can't have everything. `
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nor me... my advise to him has been second to non - to focus on him... :cry: :confused:

O well, maybe some day he'll realise that he is his only problem...
 
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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Ban him just to make sure he follows through
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I tried not to....:crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
 
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user name said:
In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
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Man, men has turened into women. We are all women, women has turned into men. therefore, men and women are synonymous, but they are completely opposite, contradictory. - Facepalm*
 
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user name said:
In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
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:up: Where's the *like* button when you need it... Basically this has something to do with "attention seeking" ?? We all know girls and attention seeking go hand in hand... :crackup:
 
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