Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"Yay skinnyguy is gone!! What a troll!"

I've decided that I'd rather spend my time doing things that help me rather than spend time on this site.

PlayHer Man - I know we had our differences, but you always kept it real and I respect you for that.

Solomon - I appreciate the advice you give to people. You are a smart person. Just remember that the number of girls you had sex with does not define you as a person. The conviction you have and things you contribute to society define you as a person.

Marx77 - hang in there man! Sooner or later you'll realize what a great catch you are, and your mindset will change from there.

Everyone else - thanks for your advice. I've realized that what's more helpful to me is to spend my time figuring out ways to make more money. Simply dwelling on my past or insecurities has done nothing, and will do nothing for me. In the end, it's really just about what you prioritize. There are so many things out there you can prioritize and you can't have everything. `
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nor me... my advise to him has been second to non - to focus on him... :cry: :confused:

O well, maybe some day he'll realise that he is his only problem...
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Ban him just to make sure he follows through
I tried not to....:crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
 

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user name said:
In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
Man, men has turened into women. We are all women, women has turned into men. therefore, men and women are synonymous, but they are completely opposite, contradictory. - Facepalm*
 

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user name said:
In screenwriting there is what is known as 'sub-text'. That is, what is really being said underneath what is being said.

Girls use this all the time and look for it in what guys say hence why we think they're confusing.

On the surface OP is saying this is his last post. Subtextually he is saying something else. Interesting.
:up: Where's the *like* button when you need it... Basically this has something to do with "attention seeking" ?? We all know girls and attention seeking go hand in hand... :crackup:
 
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