SeymourCake
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Okay, i just went back and watched a little of it to be open minded....yep good stuff on frame and all of it is pretty much spot on, just don't like the guys, especially the on on the right who is trying to hard to look cool or tough basically shoving his balls into the camera the way he is sitting. Sounds gay when he talks as well.zinc4 said:stopped watching as soon as i saw the 2 guys and heard them utter 2-3 sentences...those are not natural aphas...look like dweebs to me especially the guy on the right....just not much masculine energy from either...both look metrosexual...i am sure they know what they are talking about based on comments i have seen, but they just look too weak and contrived to me...
zinc4 said:If you want to see a real alpha then look no further than this..Buakaw Por Pramuk...one of the best Thai kickboxers of all time and trains and fights like a freakin madman and gives a majority of his winnings to people in his local village in Thailand...he would literally eat those 2 little pussies for breakfast at the same time...ps ignore the rap music if u don't like:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBExHg5A-Bw
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.