SeymourCake
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Okay, i just went back and watched a little of it to be open minded....yep good stuff on frame and all of it is pretty much spot on, just don't like the guys, especially the on on the right who is trying to hard to look cool or tough basically shoving his balls into the camera the way he is sitting. Sounds gay when he talks as well.zinc4 said:stopped watching as soon as i saw the 2 guys and heard them utter 2-3 sentences...those are not natural aphas...look like dweebs to me especially the guy on the right....just not much masculine energy from either...both look metrosexual...i am sure they know what they are talking about based on comments i have seen, but they just look too weak and contrived to me...
zinc4 said:If you want to see a real alpha then look no further than this..Buakaw Por Pramuk...one of the best Thai kickboxers of all time and trains and fights like a freakin madman and gives a majority of his winnings to people in his local village in Thailand...he would literally eat those 2 little pussies for breakfast at the same time...ps ignore the rap music if u don't like:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBExHg5A-Bw
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.