SeymourCake
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Okay, i just went back and watched a little of it to be open minded....yep good stuff on frame and all of it is pretty much spot on, just don't like the guys, especially the on on the right who is trying to hard to look cool or tough basically shoving his balls into the camera the way he is sitting. Sounds gay when he talks as well.zinc4 said:stopped watching as soon as i saw the 2 guys and heard them utter 2-3 sentences...those are not natural aphas...look like dweebs to me especially the guy on the right....just not much masculine energy from either...both look metrosexual...i am sure they know what they are talking about based on comments i have seen, but they just look too weak and contrived to me...
zinc4 said:If you want to see a real alpha then look no further than this..Buakaw Por Pramuk...one of the best Thai kickboxers of all time and trains and fights like a freakin madman and gives a majority of his winnings to people in his local village in Thailand...he would literally eat those 2 little pussies for breakfast at the same time...ps ignore the rap music if u don't like:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBExHg5A-Bw
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.