SeymourCake
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Okay, i just went back and watched a little of it to be open minded....yep good stuff on frame and all of it is pretty much spot on, just don't like the guys, especially the on on the right who is trying to hard to look cool or tough basically shoving his balls into the camera the way he is sitting. Sounds gay when he talks as well.zinc4 said:stopped watching as soon as i saw the 2 guys and heard them utter 2-3 sentences...those are not natural aphas...look like dweebs to me especially the guy on the right....just not much masculine energy from either...both look metrosexual...i am sure they know what they are talking about based on comments i have seen, but they just look too weak and contrived to me...
zinc4 said:If you want to see a real alpha then look no further than this..Buakaw Por Pramuk...one of the best Thai kickboxers of all time and trains and fights like a freakin madman and gives a majority of his winnings to people in his local village in Thailand...he would literally eat those 2 little pussies for breakfast at the same time...ps ignore the rap music if u don't like:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBExHg5A-Bw
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.