"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This video has over 500+ million views.

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Check the viewership on this. This is a sign of the times. Only in a dystopian world with lonely and thirsty guys is something like that possible.

Having a video of a Stacie-like woman saying that "she could be the one" to all of the disenfranchised men out there.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I absolutely agree. These men's thirsty behavior is absolutely shameful. What makes it especially problematic is that we as human beings don't live in a vacuum - the actions of others have an impact on our lives whether directly or indirectly.

That's why I've completely reverted my stance on vaccines. I'm now fully on board, it's time to vaccinate the vast majority of men out there (women get a pass on vaxes though).... It's the socially responsible thing to do.
 

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That song is not that great to be honest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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500 million views is crazy. I'd be curious to know the breakdown of what percentage of those are females, and what percentage are males.
 

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500 million views is crazy. I'd be curious to know the breakdown of what percentage of those are females, and what percentage are males.
There is no way to know that to certain, but I will say this. There are a number of female commentators on the video itself. Some of which have put comments about how sexy or pretty she is. They sound a bit queer to me, but I'm sure there are some straight ones too.

It puts a sick spin on it that if I'm sitting on my man cave on a recliner and watching this video on a larger HDTV and digging it all in, then other queer women are also potentially enjoying this video too... (I've only done that once last year with this video.)
 

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Riley is also hot. She is a Christian artist and believes until waiting for marriage. That's why she looks so pretty.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There is no way to know that to certain, but I will say this. There are a number of female commentators on the video itself. Some of which have put comments about how sexy or pretty she is. They sound a bit queer to me
Well, it is Pride month. Not too long ago, I think it was called Gay Pride month, but now they have to include all the other gender blending types and orientations. I also remember when I was younger, "queer" was considered a slur. Interesting how things change.

Anyway, it's not unusual for women to comment about other women being pretty and what not. I suppose it's somewhat akin to how some men admire how in shape another guy is. Maybe there's something aspirational about it. Like "If I can use enough skin care products, maybe my skin will look like that too". But yeah, no doubt some of it is desire.
 

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Well, it is Pride month. Not too long ago, I think it was called Gay Pride month, but now they have to include all the other gender blending types and orientations. I also remember when I was younger, "queer" was considered a slur. Interesting how things change.

Anyway, it's not unusual for women to comment about other women being pretty and what not. I suppose it's somewhat akin to how some men admire how in shape another guy is. Maybe there's something aspirational about it. Like "If I can use enough skin care products, maybe my skin will look like that too". But yeah, no doubt some of it is desire.
I don't agree with Pride month, but it is what it is. I already get shoved this agenda in my TV-shows and movies enough, (you might have a great TV-show like "The 100" for example, then some gay "moments" on there for that agenda, etc.... Take the recent HBO show Flight Attendant and how that is ruining an already interesting show, or even Jane the Virgin, etc...) and it's not nice to have things forced on you that you don't agree with.

Anyway, it's hot to agree with another bi-woman that another woman is hot. Plays with some wiring in my mind.
 
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