“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this sound like a booty call to you?

jamescr73

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i met this chick last saturday at a resturant. She worked there, and i started some convo with her at the counter, and told her i would be back before i left. So i told my buddy that i was going to get her number after we ate and he informed me that her boyfriend was at the table next to us. Im like wtf? this dude is a chump. :eek: So sure enough, we ate slow and the dudes left (4 of them total), and she gave one dude a kiss before they went out the door. I walked up to her about a minute later and said "was that your bore friend?" she said "yeah", i said, "well thats sad, because i was coming up here to get your number, but you can give it to me anyway". She said "ok cool, we can hang out sometime", and she punched it into my phone. so i called her the next day and tried to set up a time we could meet. She told me that her boyfriend was out of convenience. They live together, but she has her own room and own space. So im like whatever, cause i dont really care. Dude has nothing on me. haha.
So im at the gym a bit ago, and i get out and have a voicemail from her, inviting me over tonight to play video games, because her boyfriend is at work. Interesting. Her phone is messed up (she actually called me from her boyfriends phone the other day, and was all talking covertly to me on the phone and shlt, it was hilarious), so she told me the address and just said to come over after 8. so i called her back at work and told her that i was busy until 9:30-10, but after that i could. She said "ok just come over whenever".

Does that sound like a booty call to you guys? :yes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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vorbis

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it certainly does :) get in there you lucky bastard!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Am I going to be the first one to ask what would happen if her boyfriend finds an new number that was called from his phone?
 

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Id say "hey whats up man? Yeah this is Amy's cousin, James. Nice to meet you. Yeah she called me the other day because her phone was messed up. Alright, talk to you later" :rockon:
 

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jamescr73 said:
i met this chick last saturday at a resturant. She worked there, and i started some convo with her at the counter, and told her i would be back before i left. So i told my buddy that i was going to get her number after we ate and he informed me that her boyfriend was at the table next to us. Im like wtf? this dude is a chump. :eek: So sure enough, we ate slow and the dudes left (4 of them total), and she gave one dude a kiss before they went out the door. I walked up to her about a minute later and said "was that your bore friend?" she said "yeah", i said, "well thats sad, because i was coming up here to get your number, but you can give it to me anyway". She said "ok cool, we can hang out sometime", and she punched it into my phone. so i called her the next day and tried to set up a time we could meet. She told me that her boyfriend was out of convenience. They live together, but she has her own room and own space. So im like whatever, cause i dont really care. Dude has nothing on me. haha.
So im at the gym a bit ago, and i get out and have a voicemail from her, inviting me over tonight to play video games, because her boyfriend is at work. Interesting. Her phone is messed up (she actually called me from her boyfriends phone the other day, and was all talking covertly to me on the phone and shlt, it was hilarious), so she told me the address and just said to come over after 8. so i called her back at work and told her that i was busy until 9:30-10, but after that i could. She said "ok just come over whenever".

Does that sound like a booty call to you guys? :yes:
Jesus... it doesn't get any bootier than that. Nice $&#($&# job, bud!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds like a booty call to me. I personally wouldn't want to get involved with her since she lives with her b/f. Go for it if you want to tho. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
 

jamescr73

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i wouldnt want my girl to cheat on me, but then again, shes not my girl :crackup:
 

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You do what you wanna do, but just remember dude...what goes around, comes around.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ryannath

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^^^I'm kind of in the same situation, except mine is married..lol.
 

jamescr73

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ValleyDJing said:
You do what you wanna do, but just remember dude...what goes around, comes around.
yeah, actually in my case everything is opposite. It already came around, so now its time for me to go around. God id like to take a video and send it to my ex. hahahahaa.
 

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I was in a similar situation a year ago and I fell in love with the trashy b***h and it ended very badly.
THat is the danger you face.
Remember this -" If they will do it with you, they will do it TO you."
 

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jamescr73 said:
Id say "hey whats up man? Yeah this is Amy's cousin, James. Nice to meet you. Yeah she called me the other day because her phone was messed up. Alright, talk to you later" :rockon:
You had better let this chick know that you're going to say that if he calls because you know who he'll call as soon as he gets off the phone with you.
 

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i wouldnt go over there, what if he comes home early... he might kill you and her... some guys are nuts... i wouldnt do that, just tell him to leave (i know guys act like guys, when i was cheated on i never blamed him... and then i found out she said she didnt have a BF... long story). but seriously man, you might be ****ing the **** out of here and bam door opens, your naked getting your head smashed in.

think about it... if your goingto do it invite her over to your place.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ValleyDJing

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Livinlifehard said:
i wouldnt go over there, what if he comes home early... he might kill you and her... some guys are nuts... i wouldnt do that, just tell him to leave (i know guys act like guys, when i was cheated on i never blamed him... and then i found out she said she didnt have a BF... long story). but seriously man, you might be ****ing the **** out of here and bam door opens, your naked getting your head smashed in.

think about it... if your goingto do it invite her over to your place.

I was talking about karma but that too! haha! "Your naked and getting your head smashed in" :crackup: :crackup:
 

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So im over there hanging out, and were seriously playing games and dude shows up. He didnt do anything. Not a fu*king thing. She grabbed a backpack full of beer, and we went to my house. Then the fun began. :D
God i love my life.
 

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yeah i guess its fairly open. The dude came in, she introduced me to him, i shook his hand and said whats up, and we were out the door within 1 minute. Then today she tells me that he said i seemed pretty cool. Nice.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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