"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this sound like a booty call to you?

jamescr73

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i met this chick last saturday at a resturant. She worked there, and i started some convo with her at the counter, and told her i would be back before i left. So i told my buddy that i was going to get her number after we ate and he informed me that her boyfriend was at the table next to us. Im like wtf? this dude is a chump. :eek: So sure enough, we ate slow and the dudes left (4 of them total), and she gave one dude a kiss before they went out the door. I walked up to her about a minute later and said "was that your bore friend?" she said "yeah", i said, "well thats sad, because i was coming up here to get your number, but you can give it to me anyway". She said "ok cool, we can hang out sometime", and she punched it into my phone. so i called her the next day and tried to set up a time we could meet. She told me that her boyfriend was out of convenience. They live together, but she has her own room and own space. So im like whatever, cause i dont really care. Dude has nothing on me. haha.
So im at the gym a bit ago, and i get out and have a voicemail from her, inviting me over tonight to play video games, because her boyfriend is at work. Interesting. Her phone is messed up (she actually called me from her boyfriends phone the other day, and was all talking covertly to me on the phone and shlt, it was hilarious), so she told me the address and just said to come over after 8. so i called her back at work and told her that i was busy until 9:30-10, but after that i could. She said "ok just come over whenever".

Does that sound like a booty call to you guys? :yes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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vorbis

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it certainly does :) get in there you lucky bastard!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Am I going to be the first one to ask what would happen if her boyfriend finds an new number that was called from his phone?
 

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Id say "hey whats up man? Yeah this is Amy's cousin, James. Nice to meet you. Yeah she called me the other day because her phone was messed up. Alright, talk to you later" :rockon:
 

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jamescr73 said:
i met this chick last saturday at a resturant. She worked there, and i started some convo with her at the counter, and told her i would be back before i left. So i told my buddy that i was going to get her number after we ate and he informed me that her boyfriend was at the table next to us. Im like wtf? this dude is a chump. :eek: So sure enough, we ate slow and the dudes left (4 of them total), and she gave one dude a kiss before they went out the door. I walked up to her about a minute later and said "was that your bore friend?" she said "yeah", i said, "well thats sad, because i was coming up here to get your number, but you can give it to me anyway". She said "ok cool, we can hang out sometime", and she punched it into my phone. so i called her the next day and tried to set up a time we could meet. She told me that her boyfriend was out of convenience. They live together, but she has her own room and own space. So im like whatever, cause i dont really care. Dude has nothing on me. haha.
So im at the gym a bit ago, and i get out and have a voicemail from her, inviting me over tonight to play video games, because her boyfriend is at work. Interesting. Her phone is messed up (she actually called me from her boyfriends phone the other day, and was all talking covertly to me on the phone and shlt, it was hilarious), so she told me the address and just said to come over after 8. so i called her back at work and told her that i was busy until 9:30-10, but after that i could. She said "ok just come over whenever".

Does that sound like a booty call to you guys? :yes:
Jesus... it doesn't get any bootier than that. Nice $&#($&# job, bud!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds like a booty call to me. I personally wouldn't want to get involved with her since she lives with her b/f. Go for it if you want to tho. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
 

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i wouldnt want my girl to cheat on me, but then again, shes not my girl :crackup:
 

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You do what you wanna do, but just remember dude...what goes around, comes around.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^^^I'm kind of in the same situation, except mine is married..lol.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
You do what you wanna do, but just remember dude...what goes around, comes around.
yeah, actually in my case everything is opposite. It already came around, so now its time for me to go around. God id like to take a video and send it to my ex. hahahahaa.
 

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I was in a similar situation a year ago and I fell in love with the trashy b***h and it ended very badly.
THat is the danger you face.
Remember this -" If they will do it with you, they will do it TO you."
 

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jamescr73 said:
Id say "hey whats up man? Yeah this is Amy's cousin, James. Nice to meet you. Yeah she called me the other day because her phone was messed up. Alright, talk to you later" :rockon:
You had better let this chick know that you're going to say that if he calls because you know who he'll call as soon as he gets off the phone with you.
 

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i wouldnt go over there, what if he comes home early... he might kill you and her... some guys are nuts... i wouldnt do that, just tell him to leave (i know guys act like guys, when i was cheated on i never blamed him... and then i found out she said she didnt have a BF... long story). but seriously man, you might be ****ing the **** out of here and bam door opens, your naked getting your head smashed in.

think about it... if your goingto do it invite her over to your place.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Livinlifehard said:
i wouldnt go over there, what if he comes home early... he might kill you and her... some guys are nuts... i wouldnt do that, just tell him to leave (i know guys act like guys, when i was cheated on i never blamed him... and then i found out she said she didnt have a BF... long story). but seriously man, you might be ****ing the **** out of here and bam door opens, your naked getting your head smashed in.

think about it... if your goingto do it invite her over to your place.

I was talking about karma but that too! haha! "Your naked and getting your head smashed in" :crackup: :crackup:
 

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So im over there hanging out, and were seriously playing games and dude shows up. He didnt do anything. Not a fu*king thing. She grabbed a backpack full of beer, and we went to my house. Then the fun began. :D
God i love my life.
 

jamescr73

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yeah i guess its fairly open. The dude came in, she introduced me to him, i shook his hand and said whats up, and we were out the door within 1 minute. Then today she tells me that he said i seemed pretty cool. Nice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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