SirFratserlot
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I was pretty confident in myself, but after reading stuff on this site I dont. I keep thinking the girl im talking to is like banging three different ****s right now.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
This site makes me feel like a$$hole
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backseatjuan
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Think about your words:
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
Mike32ct
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You're learning. The nicest most proper looking girl was likely getting railed on all fours and moaning the Battle H y mn of the R e p u blic less than a week ago.
Find another girl who is more receptive to you.
If you only provide her with attention and a shoulder to cry on, you are helping the other guys get laid. This is because you give her a soft pillow to land on after she feels "used" by the other guys. Once you make her feel better, she goes back to them for more sex.
The reason this women thing takes so long to learn is NOT because women are that complicated. It's because women are good actresses and liars who do a good job hiding how they really are. They want you to believe they're innocent AND can't be figured out. While they are more complicated than men, there is a method to their madness, even if we don't agree with it.
Find another girl who is more receptive to you.
If you only provide her with attention and a shoulder to cry on, you are helping the other guys get laid. This is because you give her a soft pillow to land on after she feels "used" by the other guys. Once you make her feel better, she goes back to them for more sex.
The reason this women thing takes so long to learn is NOT because women are that complicated. It's because women are good actresses and liars who do a good job hiding how they really are. They want you to believe they're innocent AND can't be figured out. While they are more complicated than men, there is a method to their madness, even if we don't agree with it.
SirFratserlot
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I live in a small conservative town and im lucky just to meet one. I feel like shvt because I keep overanalyzing and think im losing grasp.backseatjuan said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mike32ct
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The point is to enlighten you, not to make you overanalyze.
By all means be confident. Just know in the back of your head that she's not Miss Innocent. That's all you really need to know.
By all means be confident. Just know in the back of your head that she's not Miss Innocent. That's all you really need to know.