SirFratserlot
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I was pretty confident in myself, but after reading stuff on this site I dont. I keep thinking the girl im talking to is like banging three different ****s right now.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Good. You're learning.SirFratserlot said:I keep thinking the girl im talking to is like banging three different ****s right now.
I live in a small conservative town and im lucky just to meet one. I feel like shvt because I keep overanalyzing and think im losing grasp.backseatjuan said:Think about your words:
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.