SirFratserlot
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I was pretty confident in myself, but after reading stuff on this site I dont. I keep thinking the girl im talking to is like banging three different ****s right now.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This site makes me feel like a$$hole
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backseatjuan
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Think about your words:
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
Mike32ct
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You're learning. The nicest most proper looking girl was likely getting railed on all fours and moaning the Battle H y mn of the R e p u blic less than a week ago.
Find another girl who is more receptive to you.
If you only provide her with attention and a shoulder to cry on, you are helping the other guys get laid. This is because you give her a soft pillow to land on after she feels "used" by the other guys. Once you make her feel better, she goes back to them for more sex.
The reason this women thing takes so long to learn is NOT because women are that complicated. It's because women are good actresses and liars who do a good job hiding how they really are. They want you to believe they're innocent AND can't be figured out. While they are more complicated than men, there is a method to their madness, even if we don't agree with it.
Find another girl who is more receptive to you.
If you only provide her with attention and a shoulder to cry on, you are helping the other guys get laid. This is because you give her a soft pillow to land on after she feels "used" by the other guys. Once you make her feel better, she goes back to them for more sex.
The reason this women thing takes so long to learn is NOT because women are that complicated. It's because women are good actresses and liars who do a good job hiding how they really are. They want you to believe they're innocent AND can't be figured out. While they are more complicated than men, there is a method to their madness, even if we don't agree with it.
SirFratserlot
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I live in a small conservative town and im lucky just to meet one. I feel like shvt because I keep overanalyzing and think im losing grasp.backseatjuan said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mike32ct
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The point is to enlighten you, not to make you overanalyze.
By all means be confident. Just know in the back of your head that she's not Miss Innocent. That's all you really need to know.
By all means be confident. Just know in the back of your head that she's not Miss Innocent. That's all you really need to know.