SirFratserlot
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I was pretty confident in myself, but after reading stuff on this site I dont. I keep thinking the girl im talking to is like banging three different ****s right now.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This site makes me feel like a$$hole
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
backseatjuan
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Think about your words:
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
Mike32ct
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You're learning. The nicest most proper looking girl was likely getting railed on all fours and moaning the Battle H y mn of the R e p u blic less than a week ago.
Find another girl who is more receptive to you.
If you only provide her with attention and a shoulder to cry on, you are helping the other guys get laid. This is because you give her a soft pillow to land on after she feels "used" by the other guys. Once you make her feel better, she goes back to them for more sex.
The reason this women thing takes so long to learn is NOT because women are that complicated. It's because women are good actresses and liars who do a good job hiding how they really are. They want you to believe they're innocent AND can't be figured out. While they are more complicated than men, there is a method to their madness, even if we don't agree with it.
Find another girl who is more receptive to you.
If you only provide her with attention and a shoulder to cry on, you are helping the other guys get laid. This is because you give her a soft pillow to land on after she feels "used" by the other guys. Once you make her feel better, she goes back to them for more sex.
The reason this women thing takes so long to learn is NOT because women are that complicated. It's because women are good actresses and liars who do a good job hiding how they really are. They want you to believe they're innocent AND can't be figured out. While they are more complicated than men, there is a method to their madness, even if we don't agree with it.
SirFratserlot
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I live in a small conservative town and im lucky just to meet one. I feel like shvt because I keep overanalyzing and think im losing grasp.backseatjuan said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Mike32ct
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The point is to enlighten you, not to make you overanalyze.
By all means be confident. Just know in the back of your head that she's not Miss Innocent. That's all you really need to know.
By all means be confident. Just know in the back of your head that she's not Miss Innocent. That's all you really need to know.