SirFratserlot
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I was pretty confident in myself, but after reading stuff on this site I dont. I keep thinking the girl im talking to is like banging three different ****s right now.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This site makes me feel like a$$hole
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backseatjuan
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Think about your words:
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
The girl I'm talking to, bangs others.
An AFC is happy that he is talking to a girl. A DJ knows that girls talk to each other and when a man talks to a girl, the girl thinks of that man as a girlfriend. Thus, if you first talk to her and then try to advance that into anything more you are a weirdo. Because friends don't **** friends.
^^That's book of pook, like first chapter.
I bet you feeling like crap because the chick bangs others - probably. But not about the proper part, that you are just talking.
AFCs blame others for their crappy lives because they don't see what they are doing wrong.
Mike32ct
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You're learning. The nicest most proper looking girl was likely getting railed on all fours and moaning the Battle H y mn of the R e p u blic less than a week ago.
Find another girl who is more receptive to you.
If you only provide her with attention and a shoulder to cry on, you are helping the other guys get laid. This is because you give her a soft pillow to land on after she feels "used" by the other guys. Once you make her feel better, she goes back to them for more sex.
The reason this women thing takes so long to learn is NOT because women are that complicated. It's because women are good actresses and liars who do a good job hiding how they really are. They want you to believe they're innocent AND can't be figured out. While they are more complicated than men, there is a method to their madness, even if we don't agree with it.
Find another girl who is more receptive to you.
If you only provide her with attention and a shoulder to cry on, you are helping the other guys get laid. This is because you give her a soft pillow to land on after she feels "used" by the other guys. Once you make her feel better, she goes back to them for more sex.
The reason this women thing takes so long to learn is NOT because women are that complicated. It's because women are good actresses and liars who do a good job hiding how they really are. They want you to believe they're innocent AND can't be figured out. While they are more complicated than men, there is a method to their madness, even if we don't agree with it.
SirFratserlot
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I live in a small conservative town and im lucky just to meet one. I feel like shvt because I keep overanalyzing and think im losing grasp.backseatjuan said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mike32ct
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The point is to enlighten you, not to make you overanalyze.
By all means be confident. Just know in the back of your head that she's not Miss Innocent. That's all you really need to know.
By all means be confident. Just know in the back of your head that she's not Miss Innocent. That's all you really need to know.