"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Heh, I have no problem getting the girl.. it's just keeping her. I know how to play the game.. but when it comes to relationships.. well it's not exactly my strong point. Uhg. I think sosuave needs more bf-gf and relationship type stuff.. it would help me out loads..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nas2mylou will eventually get bored with this stuff when he grows up. Until then I like to consider him like my little brother doing stuff to impress or get attention (good or bad). It's actually kind of cute when you think about it like that. Please keep it coming Nas, I miss my little brother.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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NFC said:
Heh, I have no problem getting the girl.. it's just keeping her. I know how to play the game.. but when it comes to relationships.. well it's not exactly my strong point....
I hate to tell you this, but relationships will remain elusive as long as you treat it as a game without understanding the underlying factors.
 

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Nasman, perhaps you could do something constructive like ask Luke Skywalker to be your wing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I hate to tell you this, but relationships will remain elusive as long as you treat it as a game without understanding the underlying factors.
Yeah.. I was kinda hoping after all the **** tests and what not I wouldn't have to game as much.. but this is appearing to be completely not the case.
 

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Tazman said:
LOL!! I'm sorry I couldn't help but laugh at this.


Carry on!

Well when I saw the other guys post about him sounding like skip I was happy to see that I wasn't the only one.
 

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NFC said:
Yeah.. I was kinda hoping after all the **** tests and what not I wouldn't have to game as much.. but this is appearing to be completely not the case.
I'll let you in on something; anyone (man or woman) who plays games in an attempt to find out what you're about will continue to do it during a relationship. It's the way they operate, it's easier for them to do that than to come out and just ask you outright. You'll need to determine whether you're willing to perpetually put up with the BS.
 

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Fortunate_Juan said:
Nas2mylou
lol... hilarious!
But I even gotta give skip more credit than this tool. At least he contributed some threads breaking down the myspace game. Rather than... "Everyone here is an AFC, but will you still validate me?"

No matter how hard you try to twist the perception of me here Nasman, its only going to highlight your being a toll. My stripes in the game are earned, my posts on the board are here, my mailbox full of "please advise me" and cool cats droppin rep pts. for insight gleamed.

The only reason I've posted on all your threads is, cause the mass-majority of them have NOTHING to do w. sharing insight of game. So when I write... and "how does this contribute to game?"... don't be flattered, I'm not your biggest fan.

And yes... I do write well, its an extension of intelligence.
Thanks for noticing. I'm impressed you can recognize something outside of your reality.

In regards to lays under my belt... you won't see me starting a thread about it. You know why? Cause real pimps don't care what others think. Nor do they care how many girls other guys have fvcked, cause they're not lil insecure fronting fvckwads. We're men, w. balls. With no need to seek validation from others cause we validate ourselves. So until you realize this... I guess you'll keep counting your women and comparing, in a self-perpetuated AFC haze of insecurity. Until then... chew on this wisdom, close your EXCEL pie-charts, and do us all a favor and forget about starting that thread you've been thinking about... "How big are your d!ick's?"

Peace'
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fortunate_Juan said:
Well when I saw the other guys post about him sounding like skip I was happy to see that I wasn't the only one.
Stop it you guys, you're scaring me.... :nervous:
 
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All this grandiose talk of HOR conquests and I'm a freaking 44 year old virgin! :cry:
 

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Thanks about the comment at the end this shows u have some class. Losing a family member is a tough thing to go through.
 
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