Heh, I have no problem getting the girl.. it's just keeping her. I know how to play the game.. but when it comes to relationships.. well it's not exactly my strong point. Uhg. I think sosuave needs more bf-gf and relationship type stuff.. it would help me out loads..
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
This site makes AFC guys look like pimps
- Thread starter Nasman
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
Nas2mylou will eventually get bored with this stuff when he grows up. Until then I like to consider him like my little brother doing stuff to impress or get attention (good or bad). It's actually kind of cute when you think about it like that. Please keep it coming Nas, I miss my little brother.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I hate to tell you this, but relationships will remain elusive as long as you treat it as a game without understanding the underlying factors.NFC said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
Tazman said:
Well when I saw the other guys post about him sounding like skip I was happy to see that I wasn't the only one.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'll let you in on something; anyone (man or woman) who plays games in an attempt to find out what you're about will continue to do it during a relationship. It's the way they operate, it's easier for them to do that than to come out and just ask you outright. You'll need to determine whether you're willing to perpetually put up with the BS.NFC said:
lol... hilarious!Fortunate_Juan said:
But I even gotta give skip more credit than this tool. At least he contributed some threads breaking down the myspace game. Rather than... "Everyone here is an AFC, but will you still validate me?"
No matter how hard you try to twist the perception of me here Nasman, its only going to highlight your being a toll. My stripes in the game are earned, my posts on the board are here, my mailbox full of "please advise me" and cool cats droppin rep pts. for insight gleamed.
The only reason I've posted on all your threads is, cause the mass-majority of them have NOTHING to do w. sharing insight of game. So when I write... and "how does this contribute to game?"... don't be flattered, I'm not your biggest fan.
And yes... I do write well, its an extension of intelligence.
Thanks for noticing. I'm impressed you can recognize something outside of your reality.
In regards to lays under my belt... you won't see me starting a thread about it. You know why? Cause real pimps don't care what others think. Nor do they care how many girls other guys have fvcked, cause they're not lil insecure fronting fvckwads. We're men, w. balls. With no need to seek validation from others cause we validate ourselves. So until you realize this... I guess you'll keep counting your women and comparing, in a self-perpetuated AFC haze of insecurity. Until then... chew on this wisdom, close your EXCEL pie-charts, and do us all a favor and forget about starting that thread you've been thinking about... "How big are your d!ick's?"
Peace'
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stop it you guys, you're scaring me.... :nervous:Fortunate_Juan said:
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All this grandiose talk of HOR conquests and I'm a freaking 44 year old virgin! 