Heh, I have no problem getting the girl.. it's just keeping her. I know how to play the game.. but when it comes to relationships.. well it's not exactly my strong point. Uhg. I think sosuave needs more bf-gf and relationship type stuff.. it would help me out loads..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This site makes AFC guys look like pimps
- Thread starter Nasman
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
Nas2mylou will eventually get bored with this stuff when he grows up. Until then I like to consider him like my little brother doing stuff to impress or get attention (good or bad). It's actually kind of cute when you think about it like that. Please keep it coming Nas, I miss my little brother.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I hate to tell you this, but relationships will remain elusive as long as you treat it as a game without understanding the underlying factors.NFC said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
Tazman said:
Well when I saw the other guys post about him sounding like skip I was happy to see that I wasn't the only one.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'll let you in on something; anyone (man or woman) who plays games in an attempt to find out what you're about will continue to do it during a relationship. It's the way they operate, it's easier for them to do that than to come out and just ask you outright. You'll need to determine whether you're willing to perpetually put up with the BS.NFC said:
lol... hilarious!Fortunate_Juan said:
But I even gotta give skip more credit than this tool. At least he contributed some threads breaking down the myspace game. Rather than... "Everyone here is an AFC, but will you still validate me?"
No matter how hard you try to twist the perception of me here Nasman, its only going to highlight your being a toll. My stripes in the game are earned, my posts on the board are here, my mailbox full of "please advise me" and cool cats droppin rep pts. for insight gleamed.
The only reason I've posted on all your threads is, cause the mass-majority of them have NOTHING to do w. sharing insight of game. So when I write... and "how does this contribute to game?"... don't be flattered, I'm not your biggest fan.
And yes... I do write well, its an extension of intelligence.
Thanks for noticing. I'm impressed you can recognize something outside of your reality.
In regards to lays under my belt... you won't see me starting a thread about it. You know why? Cause real pimps don't care what others think. Nor do they care how many girls other guys have fvcked, cause they're not lil insecure fronting fvckwads. We're men, w. balls. With no need to seek validation from others cause we validate ourselves. So until you realize this... I guess you'll keep counting your women and comparing, in a self-perpetuated AFC haze of insecurity. Until then... chew on this wisdom, close your EXCEL pie-charts, and do us all a favor and forget about starting that thread you've been thinking about... "How big are your d!ick's?"
Peace'
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stop it you guys, you're scaring me.... :nervous:Fortunate_Juan said:
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All this grandiose talk of HOR conquests and I'm a freaking 44 year old virgin! 