Heh, I have no problem getting the girl.. it's just keeping her. I know how to play the game.. but when it comes to relationships.. well it's not exactly my strong point. Uhg. I think sosuave needs more bf-gf and relationship type stuff.. it would help me out loads..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This site makes AFC guys look like pimps
- Thread starter Nasman
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
Nas2mylou will eventually get bored with this stuff when he grows up. Until then I like to consider him like my little brother doing stuff to impress or get attention (good or bad). It's actually kind of cute when you think about it like that. Please keep it coming Nas, I miss my little brother.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I hate to tell you this, but relationships will remain elusive as long as you treat it as a game without understanding the underlying factors.NFC said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
Tazman said:
Well when I saw the other guys post about him sounding like skip I was happy to see that I wasn't the only one.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'll let you in on something; anyone (man or woman) who plays games in an attempt to find out what you're about will continue to do it during a relationship. It's the way they operate, it's easier for them to do that than to come out and just ask you outright. You'll need to determine whether you're willing to perpetually put up with the BS.NFC said:
lol... hilarious!Fortunate_Juan said:
But I even gotta give skip more credit than this tool. At least he contributed some threads breaking down the myspace game. Rather than... "Everyone here is an AFC, but will you still validate me?"
No matter how hard you try to twist the perception of me here Nasman, its only going to highlight your being a toll. My stripes in the game are earned, my posts on the board are here, my mailbox full of "please advise me" and cool cats droppin rep pts. for insight gleamed.
The only reason I've posted on all your threads is, cause the mass-majority of them have NOTHING to do w. sharing insight of game. So when I write... and "how does this contribute to game?"... don't be flattered, I'm not your biggest fan.
And yes... I do write well, its an extension of intelligence.
Thanks for noticing. I'm impressed you can recognize something outside of your reality.
In regards to lays under my belt... you won't see me starting a thread about it. You know why? Cause real pimps don't care what others think. Nor do they care how many girls other guys have fvcked, cause they're not lil insecure fronting fvckwads. We're men, w. balls. With no need to seek validation from others cause we validate ourselves. So until you realize this... I guess you'll keep counting your women and comparing, in a self-perpetuated AFC haze of insecurity. Until then... chew on this wisdom, close your EXCEL pie-charts, and do us all a favor and forget about starting that thread you've been thinking about... "How big are your d!ick's?"
Peace'
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stop it you guys, you're scaring me.... :nervous:Fortunate_Juan said:
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All this grandiose talk of HOR conquests and I'm a freaking 44 year old virgin! 