"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This seems to work for me.

Canadian Catnip

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Over the last 2 years or so I have been reading tons of stuff on attraction, dating, body language, alpha male etc.

After reading a lot of this stuff and trying a lot of different things out I think I have hit upon something that works for me. I have gleaned this technique from a few different places and I wanted to see if some of the other PUA's on this forum could verify that this works for them as well.

First off this is not new information but after trying a lot of different things I found this one works really well for me. And it's.... Acting indifferent. It's really amazing how well it works. I almost go to the extreme of totally ignoring women. Somehow it pushes a button in them to really want to get to know you.

I can remember countless incidents over the last year, and in hindsight it's how I usually ended up with a girlfriend, of just ignoring women and they come on to me. Can anyone attest to this as well? I think I'm just understanding how it works but I don't have the entire picture just yet.

These things have been said before but they work so well.

If you see a women you like don't talk to her, talk to her friends.

Angle your body away from her when you talk to her, almost ninety degrees away, as if you are about to turn and leave.

When you enter a room, never scan it, walk in and pretend you are totally disinterested in anyone there. Apparently a beta male is always scanning the room trying to figure out his social position, whereas an alpha male knows he is the top dog. Women will unconsciously notice something different about you, they will see you as different in a good way.

These things and others have really helped. I put them all under the category of being disinterested. Can someone comment or add to this thread.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Indifference can work, but you have to know what you're doing. This is one of those things can that be pretty confusing to a beginner. Think more of a push pull thing than a complete ignoring approach. If you meet a girl you like and you're COMPLETELY indifferent she has no idea and won't put much thought into you.

It works best if you meet her, show some interest, then back off.

Overall it works.
 

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Canadian Catnip said:
When you enter a room, never scan it, walk in and pretend you are totally disinterested in anyone there. Apparently a beta male is always scanning the room trying to figure out his social position, whereas an alpha male knows he is the top dog. Women will unconsciously notice something different about you, they will see you as different in a good way.
This is actually VERY good advice. In fact I'll start using this next time I'm at a bar as I do have a tendency to walk in and look around a lot.
 
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