Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This seems to work for me.

Canadian Catnip

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Over the last 2 years or so I have been reading tons of stuff on attraction, dating, body language, alpha male etc.

After reading a lot of this stuff and trying a lot of different things out I think I have hit upon something that works for me. I have gleaned this technique from a few different places and I wanted to see if some of the other PUA's on this forum could verify that this works for them as well.

First off this is not new information but after trying a lot of different things I found this one works really well for me. And it's.... Acting indifferent. It's really amazing how well it works. I almost go to the extreme of totally ignoring women. Somehow it pushes a button in them to really want to get to know you.

I can remember countless incidents over the last year, and in hindsight it's how I usually ended up with a girlfriend, of just ignoring women and they come on to me. Can anyone attest to this as well? I think I'm just understanding how it works but I don't have the entire picture just yet.

These things have been said before but they work so well.

If you see a women you like don't talk to her, talk to her friends.

Angle your body away from her when you talk to her, almost ninety degrees away, as if you are about to turn and leave.

When you enter a room, never scan it, walk in and pretend you are totally disinterested in anyone there. Apparently a beta male is always scanning the room trying to figure out his social position, whereas an alpha male knows he is the top dog. Women will unconsciously notice something different about you, they will see you as different in a good way.

These things and others have really helped. I put them all under the category of being disinterested. Can someone comment or add to this thread.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Forms

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Indifference can work, but you have to know what you're doing. This is one of those things can that be pretty confusing to a beginner. Think more of a push pull thing than a complete ignoring approach. If you meet a girl you like and you're COMPLETELY indifferent she has no idea and won't put much thought into you.

It works best if you meet her, show some interest, then back off.

Overall it works.
 

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Canadian Catnip said:
When you enter a room, never scan it, walk in and pretend you are totally disinterested in anyone there. Apparently a beta male is always scanning the room trying to figure out his social position, whereas an alpha male knows he is the top dog. Women will unconsciously notice something different about you, they will see you as different in a good way.
This is actually VERY good advice. In fact I'll start using this next time I'm at a bar as I do have a tendency to walk in and look around a lot.
 
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