This place has gone to shyt

[Divorced w 3]

I doubt it's opting out of dating. Younger men, I'd say, and I would know since I am one of them, are both busy at this time building themselves up, and at the same time unaware that forums like these exist. They do want to date, they just don't know how, or what to do, because they don't have a solid (and dare I say it, mainstream) framework to base their romantic mentalities and pursuits upon. I only became aware of this forum out of sheer luck combined with immense pain.

Indeed, it isn't rocket science, but again, if you're basing your personality and appeal to women on trashy mainstream media about how a man should be, of course you'd be lost too, and the worse part is, you don't even know it.

3 is spot-on. There's also much more to life than cold approaches and the ability to pick up girls. Hell, I was only able to come back here because I remembered I used to stay here a lot during college. Still working on myself, mind you.

You are lucky you found this forum. As someone who has had no issue plucking attractive women out of your demographic, I would suggest that some of the principles here will work for you. Do build your self and your business up, but don’t miss what’s going on in front of you, I hope you find the tools that help you find the dating scene that is best for you.

 

[Divorced w 3]

C'mon Baron everyone's stubborn here

Speak for yourself, I move like water

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Don't project your bs on me bruh..multiple people been calling you out in "the locker room". Sometimes you gotta sit back and roll with the punches.

I have zero incentive to make up stories and then crumble because I've been living a lie. All I say is real: the good the bad and the ugly.


You left expecting people to cry because ifof your exit but it was a powerless move because you exposed YOURSELF. Talking about fixing my life: just got ANOTHER big job. Juli and August I've been working around the clock only taking time off to visit my daughter. My painting / carpentry bizz is going crazy . September is filled for half the month already making it a 2/5 month streak of consistently working from 6 in the morning till 21.00/ 22.00. 6 new clients in the pipeline...Say whuuuut.

Unfortunately my pictures are too large ( pause) to upload cause I tried to show yall what im doing. Shyte going great here.


Anyhow , welcome back. This time just keep it 100 and all will be good. One love

No one cares about your dumb locker room Karen and stop using "bruh", you are way too old for that unc.

I never expected anything from my exit. I just find it hilarious that dudes who are not getting laid and having success with women are telling others what to do with their lives, in regards to women. Stay in your own lane and raise your own kid Karen. Hopefully he won't be as insufferable as you when he grows up.

But hey, if life is good, keep it good unc. Just don't tell others how to live theirs.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Shut up and let him die in peace.

 

[Gamisch]

No one cares about your dumb locker room Karen and stop using "bruh", you are way too old for that unc.

I never expected anything from my exit. I just find it hilarious that dudes who are not getting laid and having success with women are telling others what to do with their lives, in regards to women. Stay in your own lane and raise your own kid Karen. Hopefully he won't be as insufferable as you when he grows up.

But hey, if life is good, keep it good unc. Just don't tell others how to live theirs.

Blah blah blah

Just let it go and let's keep moving the thread.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Blah blah blah

Just let it go and let's keep moving the thread.

It just makes me almost smirk how those who are in a bad spot in life and not living a happy life somehow act concerned for others. Nature sometimes makes no sense haha.

 

[Gamisch]

It just makes me almost smirk how those who are in a bad spot in life and not living a happy life somehow act concerned for others. Nature sometimes makes no sense haha.

Yeah, like fabricating your life on anonymous forums so strangers you'll never see can validate you ? Only to crack and confess
it was all a lie and completely lose that little credibility you had? And then leave ( bey Felicia)only to pathetically crawl back?? ( hi Felicia)

But Jessie you can always..sell, any dream to meeeeee

I geuss in order to do so your life indeed gotta be pretty senseless. Now let it go. At some moment enough is enough . We've reached that point don't you think Jessie?

Let
It
Go

The entire forum flamed you , now let's move on. Sometimes heads clash inthe locker room... or go back roaming the streets endlessly bothering women and chucking up L after L after L after L. Whatever floats your boat. I'm gonna let this go and would appreciate it if you stop derailing the thread.

I'm out.Peace!!!

 

[handle]

In my experience this forum has always had a lot of irrelevant advice and a lot of bad advice. Remember all that bull**** about NLP?

I do think that, as legacy forums like these get less and less popular, you stop getting new ideas fed into the system. Which is unfortunate, but isn’t unique to this site.

 

[sevbucmash]

 

[tksniper]

The fact that this forum has existed for as long as it has is a minor miracle imho. I used to be here when Pook was actually still asking Anti-Dump for dating advice back when I was an 18 year old kid trying to get over “one-itis”(My original account was created in 2001, 24 years ago!). Back then, the only thing guys had to deal with were attention wh0res. (Ahhh how great we had it before social media). But Pook was Nastrodamus and predicted where society would go because of feminism.

If you think this forum has gone to sh1t, I believe you are looking at it all wrong. Think of this site as an artifact/library of Atlantis. And the guys who are still here who can recollect their memories of Atlantis are historians. And the new posters are tourists.

Tourists always turn ancient sites into sh1t. But that’s not the value of this forum. It’s like the library of Alexandria. Everything you’ve always needed to learn has already been written and could not be re-written better.

The current iteration of sosuave are just passing by tourists and/or scholars who are faithful to the original teachings.

If you are expecting Atlantis, then that time has passed. There isn’t anything more anyone can add besides just faithful interpretations of what the greats have already said.

Current iteration of sosuave is just a chat room that exists in memory of sosuave. A more accurate statement is that the chat room has gone to sh1t or doesn’t hold a candle to the original forum.

 

[SW15]

back when I was an 18 year old kid trying to get over “one-itis”(My original account was created in 2001, 24 years ago!).

I can remember those days as an 18 year old having one-itis type feelings. Since we are about the same age, we were experiencing these things at the same time.

Back then, the only thing guys had to deal with were attention wh0res. (Ahhh how great we had it before social media).

2001-2002 in the United States or another developed Western nation was not some magical time in the history of mating.

Women were still acting poorly. Attention whoring happening, but there were other things. Smartphones (and accompanying applications), more broadband internet access, and social media platforms have made things worse.

In the early 2000s, I was finishing up high school and starting college. The mating environment I experienced in those dates was somewhat of a bubble compared to what people who weren't in school in that era encountered.

I wasn't on this forum then but I started to discover content in the early 2000s that burst my blue pill ideology/nice guy outlook. It was a long transitional time. The internet was useful for that.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Yeah, like fabricating your life on anonymous forums so strangers you'll never see can validate you ? Only to crack and confess
it was all a lie and completely lose that little credibility you had? And then leave ( bey Felicia)only to pathetically crawl back?? ( hi Felicia)

But Jessie you can always..sell, any dream to meeeeee

I geuss in order to do so your life indeed gotta be pretty senseless. Now let it go. At some moment enough is enough . We've reached that point don't you think Jessie?

Let
It
Go

The entire forum flamed you , now let's move on. Sometimes heads clash inthe locker room... or go back roaming the streets endlessly bothering women and chucking up L after L after L after L. Whatever floats your boat. I'm gonna let this go and would appreciate it if you stop derailing the thread.

I'm out.Peace!!!

I guess as a father you never learned to read, you should, in fact, I encourage you to read to your kid. I never once said that anything on my field reports thread was fabricated, I said that many many years ago I did fabricate stuff out of boredom. But hey, those many years ago I was young and had time to burn.

The forum also never really flamed me, you and a handful of other Incels did.

Look, I get it, your life sucks and you will respond to this because you have nothing else really going for you. After all, what man with a life would invest so much into what others are doing with theirs and tell others what to do with theirs? But man, if your statement about being a Dad is true and not fabricated, I highly encourage you to clean up your act.

Set a good example for your kid, Karen.

 

[Bearnest]

Low Testosterone is the overriding issue. Testosterone controls behavior far more than people realize.

Nothing to do with testosterone.. ? Real testosterone vs artificial testosterone.. artificial ai testosterone doesn’t help much.

I’ve been around for about a year and a half, and the phases I’ve seen include the Mr. Amsterdam Assassin situation and the wave of incels who briefly took over the forum. Basically, trolls and guys who refused to take the advice seriously, constantly asking the same questions or going on women-hating rants, diluted the quality of discussion.

Like I mentioned in another post, I’d like to believe that when members leave, it’s because the advice actually helped them. For example, there was that Plato guy who kept chasing the same girl in his dance class and I think he eventually dropped it. Then there was the Oatmeal guy who kept doing direct approaches while working at a restaurant. He stopped posting, and maybe he finally had some success with a coworker. There was also another guy who pursued a coworker for over a year, eventually had the guts to ask her out, got rejected, but then moved on and disappeared from the forum.

The point is: if the advice works, it’s only natural for people to move on with their lives. The lack of traffic might just mean that the newer guys with issues aren’t posting, are finding other outlets, or never found this place in the first place. Ironically, it might also be that the experienced guys aren’t venting anymore because they’ve figured things out and there is no reason to whine.

salad..

 

[nicksaiz65]

The men who are more sensitive to rejection probably shouldn't do mass approaching in-person. I also wouldn't recommend that those men use swipe apps either. While the swipe app rejections are not in real time, the sheer quantity of rejections will tend to mess with a man's mind and have a negative effect.

I think men need to get an accurate reading on their own sensitivity levels to rejection.

The men who are more sensitive to rejection are probably best in social circle game. Social circle game can be long and slow. It's not the best thing to do when you have an urgent sexual need. It will probably minimize the effect of rejections as compared to approaching strangers in non-bar venues in public or going to bars/nightclubs and approaching strangers.

So you’d argue that if someone is going to be super sensitive and take the rejections personally they’d be better off not even bothering with cold approach or the swipe apps?

 

[BaronOfHair]

The men who are more sensitive to rejection are probably best in social circle game

It would be wily for them to do whatever is required to NOT remain that sensitive. Our current cultural climate is one in which we're now trying to make society "safe" for the most easily wounded, instead of steering them towards not pretending to be more fragile than glass

 

[CornbreadFed]

Just check out the hall of excellence section, and you'll see that the advice there wouldn't go over well today. The first one I noticed is a "how to do a first date" topic, and it's pure gold, in my opinion. However, it would probably get criticized now because it involves "dinner dates," being too bluepill or simpish, investing too much, and so on, when in reality, it's just a guy being a normal guy.

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/my-algorithm.267545/

 

[Gamisch]

Just check out the hall of excellence section, and you'll see that the advice there wouldn't go over well today. The first one I noticed is a "how to do a first date" topic, and it's pure gold, in my opinion. However, it would probably get criticized now because it involves "dinner dates," being too bluepill or simpish, investing too much, and so on, when in reality, it's just a guy being a normal guy.

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/my-algorithm.267545/

People don't accept this.

Before OLD was huge, there simply were different rules to the game. " your" girl didn't had the (illusion of) options she'll have nowadays or I'd she she had for the last 15 years( assuming that the biggest hype surrounding OLD is already gone).

So yes, in tbe past dudes like rollo and roosh and many more unknown heavy hitters might've been dropping gems; I'd like to see them return to the forum and give their take on hyper modern 2025 - 2030 dating.

You could literally meet a woman during and before the 2010 era and she'd be loyal to you. Step inside a time machine ,meet that same woman again now ( assuming she's the same age) and her response will be completely different because she'll be looking for top tier men thus giving you TONS of heavy competition to deal with..

 

[BaronOfHair]

Remember all that bull**** about NLP?

Everything said about NLP here

7:24-9:00 is equally true of Red Pill Thought, oddly enough

Neither has an especially concrete definition, and both cut and paste bits an pieces of a wide variety of disciplines, that the creators of NLP and RPT both had a lousy grasp of*. And both essentially serve as quasi-religions https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming Arguably then, not much has changed, in one sense anyway.



*NLP takes elements from Cognitive Behavioral, Psychodynamic, Gestalt, Solutions Focused Therapy + Motivational Interviewing? RPT is similarly a hodgepodge of everything from Evo Psych, Tom Leykis's babblings, Mythopoetic screed, "PUA" writing, etc etc

Now, this isn't to say that one CAN'T benefit from from this stuff. It IS prudent to approach them with a fair amount of skepticism, really dig into the key tenets of these ersatz theologies

 

[Divorced w 3]

People don't accept this.

Before OLD was huge, there simply were different rules to the game. " your" girl didn't had the (illusion of) options she'll have nowadays or I'd she she had for the last 15 years( assuming that the biggest hype surrounding OLD is already gone).

So yes, in tbe past dudes like rollo and roosh and many more unknown heavy hitters might've been dropping gems; I'd like to see them return to the forum and give their take on hyper modern 2025 - 2030 dating.

You could literally meet a woman during and before the 2010 era and she'd be loyal to you. Step inside a time machine ,meet that same woman again now ( assuming she's the same age) and her response will be completely different because she'll be looking for top tier men thus giving you TONS of heavy competition to deal with..

That’s why good game is as important as ever and that means using the time tested principles.

 

[CornbreadFed]

So yes, in tbe past dudes like rollo and roosh and many more unknown heavy hitters might've been dropping gems; I'd like to see them return to the forum and give their take on hyper modern 2025 - 2030 dating.

If you are relying on OLD and clubs/bars then you are pretty much screwed today. Normal women exist out there, but you have to meet them through old school conventional methods.