backbreaker
Master Don Juan
did I not call this in the 2nd post in this thread? I've seen this song at least 100 times on this site
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That's funny, because my Thai friend said exactly the opposite. When we went to Bangkok, he wanted me to be the one to open white girls because he was afraid that being Thai he'd be seen as "just another Thai guy" or probably trying to hustle them into buying something the second he opened his mouth.Ken785 said:The best chance an ASIAN MAN has to pull a white girl is when shes vacationing in an ASIAN country...when i was vaycaying it in Vietnam...seemed like they just wanted to get laid by Asian guys...those are the white girls that like Asians...
your friend is AFC.speakeasy said:That's funny, because my Thai friend said exactly the opposite. When we went to Bangkok, he wanted me to be the one to open white girls because he was afraid that being Thai he'd be seen as "just another Thai guy" or probably trying to hustle them into buying something the second he opened his mouth.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Ciara doens't look light-skinned to me. And the fact is MOST African-Americans can claim some white ancestry. Most blacks in America are around 1/4th white. So unless they just arrived as African immigrants, there are almost no blacks that can't claim any white ancestry. As for your point, the truth is, most women who are mixed looked better than women who are pure race. Southern European women look way better I think that "pure" whites like British and Scottish. The Italian, Greek and Southern Spaniard women has some Moorish ancestry and their complexion, eyes and hair are usually dark, and they tend to be very good looking. Whereas when I was in London, I thought there almost no good looking white females anywhere to be found. And if you look at Asian women, some of the best looking ones are the mixed ones. I think a half white Japanese/white chic is usually better looking than both a pure Japanese or pure white chic. I guess it's hybrid vigor. Ethiopian women are mixed black and Arab, and I think they tend to be quite good looking if you live in a city with Ethiopian immigrants.wayword said:Agreed. Halle is half-White and Ciara claims Creole, German and Irish ancestry. In other words, it's their "White" features coming through that are making them more attractive than a full-Black woman.
I wouldn't say EVERY black man agrees with that. Some black men are afrocentric and prefer darker women with dreadlocks and African garb. You just can't make sweeping generalizations like that about an entire group.You can call this racist, but even many Black men agree...as they openly prefer White/Hispanic women.
I guess that's why my sister is with a white man and I have a half white niece.Bvbidd said:No white man wants a black woman, that's just common knowledge.
He is. He even admits it. Though lately he's been discovering some DJ material online and reading it.Ken785 said:your friend is AFC.
Wow, havent seen you in a while.Eternal said:I'm white and my girlfriend is black. White girls do nothing for me and neither does this thread.
Why in the f*ck was it started anyway?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
holly...mahon83050 said:The OP is right. The MAJORITY of black women are UGLY.
I am NOT saying white women are the best looking. Every race (with the exception of black) has their fair share of attractive women.
Call me racist or not, low foreheads, large jaws, big teeth, broad noses, fat lips and kinky hair ARE NOT AESTHETICALLY PLEASING FEATURES!! Not to mention, alot of black women act unfeminine as hell.
I can guarantee you, a majority of white men would agree with me. How many white men have black girlfriends? I NEVER see it!!
Women like Halle Berry, Tanya Banks etc, DO NOT COUNT!! These women are only partially black!!
ROFL.Bvbidd said:No white man wants a black woman, that's just common knowledge.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.