backbreaker
Master Don Juan
did I not call this in the 2nd post in this thread? I've seen this song at least 100 times on this site
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's funny, because my Thai friend said exactly the opposite. When we went to Bangkok, he wanted me to be the one to open white girls because he was afraid that being Thai he'd be seen as "just another Thai guy" or probably trying to hustle them into buying something the second he opened his mouth.Ken785 said:The best chance an ASIAN MAN has to pull a white girl is when shes vacationing in an ASIAN country...when i was vaycaying it in Vietnam...seemed like they just wanted to get laid by Asian guys...those are the white girls that like Asians...
your friend is AFC.speakeasy said:That's funny, because my Thai friend said exactly the opposite. When we went to Bangkok, he wanted me to be the one to open white girls because he was afraid that being Thai he'd be seen as "just another Thai guy" or probably trying to hustle them into buying something the second he opened his mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ciara doens't look light-skinned to me. And the fact is MOST African-Americans can claim some white ancestry. Most blacks in America are around 1/4th white. So unless they just arrived as African immigrants, there are almost no blacks that can't claim any white ancestry. As for your point, the truth is, most women who are mixed looked better than women who are pure race. Southern European women look way better I think that "pure" whites like British and Scottish. The Italian, Greek and Southern Spaniard women has some Moorish ancestry and their complexion, eyes and hair are usually dark, and they tend to be very good looking. Whereas when I was in London, I thought there almost no good looking white females anywhere to be found. And if you look at Asian women, some of the best looking ones are the mixed ones. I think a half white Japanese/white chic is usually better looking than both a pure Japanese or pure white chic. I guess it's hybrid vigor. Ethiopian women are mixed black and Arab, and I think they tend to be quite good looking if you live in a city with Ethiopian immigrants.wayword said:Agreed. Halle is half-White and Ciara claims Creole, German and Irish ancestry. In other words, it's their "White" features coming through that are making them more attractive than a full-Black woman.
I wouldn't say EVERY black man agrees with that. Some black men are afrocentric and prefer darker women with dreadlocks and African garb. You just can't make sweeping generalizations like that about an entire group.You can call this racist, but even many Black men agree...as they openly prefer White/Hispanic women.
I guess that's why my sister is with a white man and I have a half white niece.Bvbidd said:No white man wants a black woman, that's just common knowledge.
He is. He even admits it. Though lately he's been discovering some DJ material online and reading it.Ken785 said:your friend is AFC.
Wow, havent seen you in a while.Eternal said:I'm white and my girlfriend is black. White girls do nothing for me and neither does this thread.
Why in the f*ck was it started anyway?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
holly...mahon83050 said:The OP is right. The MAJORITY of black women are UGLY.
I am NOT saying white women are the best looking. Every race (with the exception of black) has their fair share of attractive women.
Call me racist or not, low foreheads, large jaws, big teeth, broad noses, fat lips and kinky hair ARE NOT AESTHETICALLY PLEASING FEATURES!! Not to mention, alot of black women act unfeminine as hell.
I can guarantee you, a majority of white men would agree with me. How many white men have black girlfriends? I NEVER see it!!
Women like Halle Berry, Tanya Banks etc, DO NOT COUNT!! These women are only partially black!!
ROFL.Bvbidd said:No white man wants a black woman, that's just common knowledge.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.