backbreaker
Master Don Juan
did I not call this in the 2nd post in this thread? I've seen this song at least 100 times on this site
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's funny, because my Thai friend said exactly the opposite. When we went to Bangkok, he wanted me to be the one to open white girls because he was afraid that being Thai he'd be seen as "just another Thai guy" or probably trying to hustle them into buying something the second he opened his mouth.Ken785 said:The best chance an ASIAN MAN has to pull a white girl is when shes vacationing in an ASIAN country...when i was vaycaying it in Vietnam...seemed like they just wanted to get laid by Asian guys...those are the white girls that like Asians...
your friend is AFC.speakeasy said:That's funny, because my Thai friend said exactly the opposite. When we went to Bangkok, he wanted me to be the one to open white girls because he was afraid that being Thai he'd be seen as "just another Thai guy" or probably trying to hustle them into buying something the second he opened his mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ciara doens't look light-skinned to me. And the fact is MOST African-Americans can claim some white ancestry. Most blacks in America are around 1/4th white. So unless they just arrived as African immigrants, there are almost no blacks that can't claim any white ancestry. As for your point, the truth is, most women who are mixed looked better than women who are pure race. Southern European women look way better I think that "pure" whites like British and Scottish. The Italian, Greek and Southern Spaniard women has some Moorish ancestry and their complexion, eyes and hair are usually dark, and they tend to be very good looking. Whereas when I was in London, I thought there almost no good looking white females anywhere to be found. And if you look at Asian women, some of the best looking ones are the mixed ones. I think a half white Japanese/white chic is usually better looking than both a pure Japanese or pure white chic. I guess it's hybrid vigor. Ethiopian women are mixed black and Arab, and I think they tend to be quite good looking if you live in a city with Ethiopian immigrants.wayword said:Agreed. Halle is half-White and Ciara claims Creole, German and Irish ancestry. In other words, it's their "White" features coming through that are making them more attractive than a full-Black woman.
I wouldn't say EVERY black man agrees with that. Some black men are afrocentric and prefer darker women with dreadlocks and African garb. You just can't make sweeping generalizations like that about an entire group.You can call this racist, but even many Black men agree...as they openly prefer White/Hispanic women.
I guess that's why my sister is with a white man and I have a half white niece.Bvbidd said:No white man wants a black woman, that's just common knowledge.
He is. He even admits it. Though lately he's been discovering some DJ material online and reading it.Ken785 said:your friend is AFC.
Wow, havent seen you in a while.Eternal said:I'm white and my girlfriend is black. White girls do nothing for me and neither does this thread.
Why in the f*ck was it started anyway?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
holly...mahon83050 said:The OP is right. The MAJORITY of black women are UGLY.
I am NOT saying white women are the best looking. Every race (with the exception of black) has their fair share of attractive women.
Call me racist or not, low foreheads, large jaws, big teeth, broad noses, fat lips and kinky hair ARE NOT AESTHETICALLY PLEASING FEATURES!! Not to mention, alot of black women act unfeminine as hell.
I can guarantee you, a majority of white men would agree with me. How many white men have black girlfriends? I NEVER see it!!
Women like Halle Berry, Tanya Banks etc, DO NOT COUNT!! These women are only partially black!!
ROFL.Bvbidd said:No white man wants a black woman, that's just common knowledge.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.