"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This needs to be read by everyone

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Someone posted this on a forum I go to that has nothing to do with getting women specifically. It has a few parts that aren't exactly typical DJ behavior, in particular step 5 and 6, but the overall message rings true. This should 'paint' a clear picture for anyone who is still confused on what the hell they should be doing. Heh, I made a funny. You'll get it once you click the links:

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wow! that really woke me up and painted a picture for me...more than any article has or any audiobook! thank you so much! a lot of it isnt exactly DJ behavior like you said but it speaks and clears up the truth for you regardless...
 
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Funny as sh*t.
And great presentation. I loved it.

But as practical, helpful, real world advice?.....total nonsense.
In fact, other than a couple of things here and there, anyone who really folows that to the letter will head for disaster. Nothing will get resolved that way really.
Very negative overall, and pretty self limiting.





It is sooooooo much deeper.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interceptor said:
But as practical, helpful, real world advice?.....total nonsense.In fact, other than a couple of things here and there, anyone who really folows that to the letter will head for disaster. Nothing will get resolved that way really.Very negative overall, and pretty self limiting.
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I agree. Regardless, if it kick starts someone into improving their lives, then that's better than nothing. And anyone who finds it on this site will have plenty of good advice to follow once that kick start happens.
 
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Ace of Flames said:
Someone posted this on a forum I go to that has nothing to do with getting women specifically. It has a few parts that aren't exactly typical DJ behavior, in particular step 5 and 6, but the overall message rings true. This should 'paint' a clear picture for anyone who is still confused on what the hell they should be doing. Heh, I made a funny. You'll get it once you click the links:

Part 1
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/8302/epicxq8.gif

Part 2
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/2310/epic2op7.gif

Part 3
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/960/epic3pa1.gif
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LOL, a /b/tard in sosuave? say it aint so.
 
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LOL, a /b/tard in sosuave? say it aint so.
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Nope, not me. But whose to say the guy who posted this in my other forum isn't one? I wouldn't doubt it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it just wakes you up though..i wouldn't listen to the stuff like buy girls gifts and c12ap...but it does wake you to from the "stuck on the computer not living life" type of mentality...
 
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it just wakes you up though..i wouldn't listen to the stuff like buy girls gifts and c12ap...but it does wake you to from the "stuck on the computer not living life" type of mentality...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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