"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This needs to be read by everyone

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Someone posted this on a forum I go to that has nothing to do with getting women specifically. It has a few parts that aren't exactly typical DJ behavior, in particular step 5 and 6, but the overall message rings true. This should 'paint' a clear picture for anyone who is still confused on what the hell they should be doing. Heh, I made a funny. You'll get it once you click the links:

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Part 2
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wow! that really woke me up and painted a picture for me...more than any article has or any audiobook! thank you so much! a lot of it isnt exactly DJ behavior like you said but it speaks and clears up the truth for you regardless...
 

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Funny as sh*t.
And great presentation. I loved it.

But as practical, helpful, real world advice?.....total nonsense.
In fact, other than a couple of things here and there, anyone who really folows that to the letter will head for disaster. Nothing will get resolved that way really.
Very negative overall, and pretty self limiting.





It is sooooooo much deeper.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interceptor said:
But as practical, helpful, real world advice?.....total nonsense.In fact, other than a couple of things here and there, anyone who really folows that to the letter will head for disaster. Nothing will get resolved that way really.Very negative overall, and pretty self limiting.
I agree. Regardless, if it kick starts someone into improving their lives, then that's better than nothing. And anyone who finds it on this site will have plenty of good advice to follow once that kick start happens.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
Someone posted this on a forum I go to that has nothing to do with getting women specifically. It has a few parts that aren't exactly typical DJ behavior, in particular step 5 and 6, but the overall message rings true. This should 'paint' a clear picture for anyone who is still confused on what the hell they should be doing. Heh, I made a funny. You'll get it once you click the links:

Part 1
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/8302/epicxq8.gif

Part 2
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/2310/epic2op7.gif

Part 3
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/960/epic3pa1.gif
LOL, a /b/tard in sosuave? say it aint so.
 

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fresh_to_death said:
LOL, a /b/tard in sosuave? say it aint so.
Nope, not me. But whose to say the guy who posted this in my other forum isn't one? I wouldn't doubt it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it just wakes you up though..i wouldn't listen to the stuff like buy girls gifts and c12ap...but it does wake you to from the "stuck on the computer not living life" type of mentality...
 

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it just wakes you up though..i wouldn't listen to the stuff like buy girls gifts and c12ap...but it does wake you to from the "stuck on the computer not living life" type of mentality...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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