"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This needs to be read by everyone

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Someone posted this on a forum I go to that has nothing to do with getting women specifically. It has a few parts that aren't exactly typical DJ behavior, in particular step 5 and 6, but the overall message rings true. This should 'paint' a clear picture for anyone who is still confused on what the hell they should be doing. Heh, I made a funny. You'll get it once you click the links:

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wow! that really woke me up and painted a picture for me...more than any article has or any audiobook! thank you so much! a lot of it isnt exactly DJ behavior like you said but it speaks and clears up the truth for you regardless...
 
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Funny as sh*t.
And great presentation. I loved it.

But as practical, helpful, real world advice?.....total nonsense.
In fact, other than a couple of things here and there, anyone who really folows that to the letter will head for disaster. Nothing will get resolved that way really.
Very negative overall, and pretty self limiting.





It is sooooooo much deeper.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Interceptor said:
But as practical, helpful, real world advice?.....total nonsense.In fact, other than a couple of things here and there, anyone who really folows that to the letter will head for disaster. Nothing will get resolved that way really.Very negative overall, and pretty self limiting.
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I agree. Regardless, if it kick starts someone into improving their lives, then that's better than nothing. And anyone who finds it on this site will have plenty of good advice to follow once that kick start happens.
 
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Ace of Flames said:
Someone posted this on a forum I go to that has nothing to do with getting women specifically. It has a few parts that aren't exactly typical DJ behavior, in particular step 5 and 6, but the overall message rings true. This should 'paint' a clear picture for anyone who is still confused on what the hell they should be doing. Heh, I made a funny. You'll get it once you click the links:

Part 1
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/8302/epicxq8.gif

Part 2
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/2310/epic2op7.gif

Part 3
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/960/epic3pa1.gif
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LOL, a /b/tard in sosuave? say it aint so.
 
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LOL, a /b/tard in sosuave? say it aint so.
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Nope, not me. But whose to say the guy who posted this in my other forum isn't one? I wouldn't doubt it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it just wakes you up though..i wouldn't listen to the stuff like buy girls gifts and c12ap...but it does wake you to from the "stuck on the computer not living life" type of mentality...
 
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it just wakes you up though..i wouldn't listen to the stuff like buy girls gifts and c12ap...but it does wake you to from the "stuck on the computer not living life" type of mentality...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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