"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agreed to a date for her to confirm. I think that makes me look weak and feminine in itself( even though she said she'd do that the last date). When she sorta flaked the day of, I responded "Didn't think you were coming. Already made plans." I think it made me look unworthy and like I get dumped on a lot and it lowered her respect of me and took away my dignity. I should have assumed we were on and never agreed to confirm. It made me look weak and submissive to her to do that too. Who agrees?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can someone please explain what Sylvester the cat means? Did I really look like that much of a weak b1tch? Explain why exactly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MillionBillionaire said:
Your being a weak azz beta b1tch right now
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Because I already made myself look like I was unworthy of her by telling her I didn't think she was coming and already made plans. It's fvcking with my head. How do I deal with it? She doesn't know what I'm saying right now but I already made myself look like a phaggot a$$ "I'll wait for your confirmation" b1tch and I can't digest that. SHE WILL NEVER RESPECT ME AGAIN. My dignity is gone...
 
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You don't need explanation, you've worked it out for yourself. But to clarify:

1) Regardless of what she thinks, YOU assumed she wouldn't turn up. This is a terrible mind set to be in and I suggest you work on our confidence before trying to approach women.

2) No, you do not 'wait' for confirmation. You TELL her when to meet you and if she refuses then you wait for a counter offer. If none arrives, you move the f*ck on. LEAST of all, you DO NOT EVER tell her that you are waiting around for her like your life is so sad that you have nothing better to do than be her faithful lap servant, even if that is very much the case. Pretend you have a life if you have to.

3) "Didn't think you were coming." Final nail in the coffin. Like you've been waiting around for nothing else except this pedestalised life-changing moment. I'd let this one go. To be honest, SHE dodged a bullet with this one.

4) I'm tempted to call troll on this one.
 
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TheMonkeyKing said:
You don't need explanation, you've worked it out for yourself. But to clarify:

1) Regardless of what she thinks, YOU assumed she wouldn't turn up. This is a terrible mind set to be in and I suggest you work on our confidence before trying to approach women.

2) No, you do not 'wait' for confirmation. You TELL her when to meet you and if she refuses then you wait for a counter offer. If none arrives, you move the f*ck on. LEAST of all, you DO NOT EVER tell her that you are waiting around for her like your life is so sad that you have nothing better to do than be her faithful lap servant, even if that is very much the case. Pretend you have a life if you have to.

3) "Didn't think you were coming." Final nail in the coffin. Like you've been waiting around for nothing else except this pedestalised life-changing moment. I'd let this one go. To be honest, SHE dodged a bullet with this one.

4) I'm tempted to call troll on this one.
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Bingo. Agreed.
 
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TheMonkeyKing said:
You don't need explanation, you've worked it out for yourself. But to clarify:

1) Regardless of what she thinks, YOU assumed she wouldn't turn up. This is a terrible mind set to be in and I suggest you work on our confidence before trying to approach women.

2) No, you do not 'wait' for confirmation. You TELL her when to meet you and if she refuses then you wait for a counter offer. If none arrives, you move the f*ck on. LEAST of all, you DO NOT EVER tell her that you are waiting around for her like your life is so sad that you have nothing better to do than be her faithful lap servant, even if that is very much the case. Pretend you have a life if you have to.

3) "Didn't think you were coming." Final nail in the coffin. Like you've been waiting around for nothing else except this pedestalised life-changing moment. I'd let this one go. To be honest, SHE dodged a bullet with this one.

4) I'm tempted to call troll on this one.
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So I looked like I had no confidence and she could never like me again? IT'S REALLY THAT BAD? I LOOKED LIKE I HAD NO CONFIDENCE?!?!?!
 
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A confident man does not assume that a woman won't turn up.

You put far to much emphasis on one meeting with one woman.

You communicated both of these things to the woman in question.

It doesn't mean she'll never like you again, but it does mean that for the moment she is wondering what is wrong with you for being so desperate.... she's wondering if she is going to be stuck with a guy who seemingly has no life without her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheMonkeyKing said:
A confident man does not assume that a woman won't turn up.

You put far to much emphasis on one meeting with one woman.

You communicated both of these things to the woman in question.

It doesn't mean she'll never like you again, but it does mean that for the moment she is wondering what is wrong with you for being so desperate.... she's wondering if she is going to be stuck with a guy who seemingly has no life without her.
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I agree with your two points but it would be nice if she's not consciously thinking of those two points. I've shown a lot of confidence in the majority of our interactions
 
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