"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agreed to a date for her to confirm. I think that makes me look weak and feminine in itself( even though she said she'd do that the last date). When she sorta flaked the day of, I responded "Didn't think you were coming. Already made plans." I think it made me look unworthy and like I get dumped on a lot and it lowered her respect of me and took away my dignity. I should have assumed we were on and never agreed to confirm. It made me look weak and submissive to her to do that too. Who agrees?
 

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Can someone please explain what Sylvester the cat means? Did I really look like that much of a weak b1tch? Explain why exactly.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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MillionBillionaire said:
Your being a weak azz beta b1tch right now
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Because I already made myself look like I was unworthy of her by telling her I didn't think she was coming and already made plans. It's fvcking with my head. How do I deal with it? She doesn't know what I'm saying right now but I already made myself look like a phaggot a$$ "I'll wait for your confirmation" b1tch and I can't digest that. SHE WILL NEVER RESPECT ME AGAIN. My dignity is gone...
 
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You don't need explanation, you've worked it out for yourself. But to clarify:

1) Regardless of what she thinks, YOU assumed she wouldn't turn up. This is a terrible mind set to be in and I suggest you work on our confidence before trying to approach women.

2) No, you do not 'wait' for confirmation. You TELL her when to meet you and if she refuses then you wait for a counter offer. If none arrives, you move the f*ck on. LEAST of all, you DO NOT EVER tell her that you are waiting around for her like your life is so sad that you have nothing better to do than be her faithful lap servant, even if that is very much the case. Pretend you have a life if you have to.

3) "Didn't think you were coming." Final nail in the coffin. Like you've been waiting around for nothing else except this pedestalised life-changing moment. I'd let this one go. To be honest, SHE dodged a bullet with this one.

4) I'm tempted to call troll on this one.
 
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TheMonkeyKing said:
You don't need explanation, you've worked it out for yourself. But to clarify:

1) Regardless of what she thinks, YOU assumed she wouldn't turn up. This is a terrible mind set to be in and I suggest you work on our confidence before trying to approach women.

2) No, you do not 'wait' for confirmation. You TELL her when to meet you and if she refuses then you wait for a counter offer. If none arrives, you move the f*ck on. LEAST of all, you DO NOT EVER tell her that you are waiting around for her like your life is so sad that you have nothing better to do than be her faithful lap servant, even if that is very much the case. Pretend you have a life if you have to.

3) "Didn't think you were coming." Final nail in the coffin. Like you've been waiting around for nothing else except this pedestalised life-changing moment. I'd let this one go. To be honest, SHE dodged a bullet with this one.

4) I'm tempted to call troll on this one.
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Bingo. Agreed.
 
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TheMonkeyKing said:
You don't need explanation, you've worked it out for yourself. But to clarify:

1) Regardless of what she thinks, YOU assumed she wouldn't turn up. This is a terrible mind set to be in and I suggest you work on our confidence before trying to approach women.

2) No, you do not 'wait' for confirmation. You TELL her when to meet you and if she refuses then you wait for a counter offer. If none arrives, you move the f*ck on. LEAST of all, you DO NOT EVER tell her that you are waiting around for her like your life is so sad that you have nothing better to do than be her faithful lap servant, even if that is very much the case. Pretend you have a life if you have to.

3) "Didn't think you were coming." Final nail in the coffin. Like you've been waiting around for nothing else except this pedestalised life-changing moment. I'd let this one go. To be honest, SHE dodged a bullet with this one.

4) I'm tempted to call troll on this one.
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So I looked like I had no confidence and she could never like me again? IT'S REALLY THAT BAD? I LOOKED LIKE I HAD NO CONFIDENCE?!?!?!
 
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A confident man does not assume that a woman won't turn up.

You put far to much emphasis on one meeting with one woman.

You communicated both of these things to the woman in question.

It doesn't mean she'll never like you again, but it does mean that for the moment she is wondering what is wrong with you for being so desperate.... she's wondering if she is going to be stuck with a guy who seemingly has no life without her.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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TheMonkeyKing said:
A confident man does not assume that a woman won't turn up.

You put far to much emphasis on one meeting with one woman.

You communicated both of these things to the woman in question.

It doesn't mean she'll never like you again, but it does mean that for the moment she is wondering what is wrong with you for being so desperate.... she's wondering if she is going to be stuck with a guy who seemingly has no life without her.
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I agree with your two points but it would be nice if she's not consciously thinking of those two points. I've shown a lot of confidence in the majority of our interactions
 
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