I get my ass so far, and my head ruins it. If I like a girl and she likes me and we both know it, this is where my head goes insane. I get oneitis in a heartbeat. All my confidence is drained, I can't eat, I feel horrible, I plan out everything i'm gonna say to this girl, and I can't control any of this. I know that its all wrong, I know shes on the pedastool, you don't need to tell me that. I can't live this way forever. This is a horrible reality and I need to stop this, I can't eat for god sakes. Thanks.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This Is Why I'll Never Get An Attractive Girl
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I know exactly what ya mean.
It's because you never really had an attractive girl before. She starts to like you and you go sh!t this will be my first time with a hot girl and obsess about that fact. You explain it as getting oneitis for the girl.
Just remember that fact, you've probally fooled around with less attractive girls before, just think her as that.. don't worry if you fvck up.
It's because you never really had an attractive girl before. She starts to like you and you go sh!t this will be my first time with a hot girl and obsess about that fact. You explain it as getting oneitis for the girl.
Just remember that fact, you've probally fooled around with less attractive girls before, just think her as that.. don't worry if you fvck up.
yep, and both of them admitted to me that they cried over me. They weren't butt ass ugly but I never thought of them as hot or like a gf type id brag about. Thanks guys that was what i needed.Bvbidd said:
I was gonna meet up with her for a few minutes today and i flaked it because 1. i was sorta nervous and 2. i wanted to see if she lost intrest. Hahah, she texted me right after saying she didn't see me so I guess i'm still in the game. she texts me a lot i'm gonna take that as a positive.
If you want to NOT be a huge pansy about this anymore, go buy Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. It WILL de-wussify you. I GUARANTEE that. Then you will look back and laugh at your old self when you couldn't even eat before, now you WILL be eating 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.