I get my ass so far, and my head ruins it. If I like a girl and she likes me and we both know it, this is where my head goes insane. I get oneitis in a heartbeat. All my confidence is drained, I can't eat, I feel horrible, I plan out everything i'm gonna say to this girl, and I can't control any of this. I know that its all wrong, I know shes on the pedastool, you don't need to tell me that. I can't live this way forever. This is a horrible reality and I need to stop this, I can't eat for god sakes. Thanks.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This Is Why I'll Never Get An Attractive Girl
- Thread starter SexinEar
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I know exactly what ya mean.
It's because you never really had an attractive girl before. She starts to like you and you go sh!t this will be my first time with a hot girl and obsess about that fact. You explain it as getting oneitis for the girl.
Just remember that fact, you've probally fooled around with less attractive girls before, just think her as that.. don't worry if you fvck up.
It's because you never really had an attractive girl before. She starts to like you and you go sh!t this will be my first time with a hot girl and obsess about that fact. You explain it as getting oneitis for the girl.
Just remember that fact, you've probally fooled around with less attractive girls before, just think her as that.. don't worry if you fvck up.
yep, and both of them admitted to me that they cried over me. They weren't butt ass ugly but I never thought of them as hot or like a gf type id brag about. Thanks guys that was what i needed.Bvbidd said:
I was gonna meet up with her for a few minutes today and i flaked it because 1. i was sorta nervous and 2. i wanted to see if she lost intrest. Hahah, she texted me right after saying she didn't see me so I guess i'm still in the game. she texts me a lot i'm gonna take that as a positive.
If you want to NOT be a huge pansy about this anymore, go buy Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. It WILL de-wussify you. I GUARANTEE that. Then you will look back and laugh at your old self when you couldn't even eat before, now you WILL be eating 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.