I get my ass so far, and my head ruins it. If I like a girl and she likes me and we both know it, this is where my head goes insane. I get oneitis in a heartbeat. All my confidence is drained, I can't eat, I feel horrible, I plan out everything i'm gonna say to this girl, and I can't control any of this. I know that its all wrong, I know shes on the pedastool, you don't need to tell me that. I can't live this way forever. This is a horrible reality and I need to stop this, I can't eat for god sakes. Thanks.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This Is Why I'll Never Get An Attractive Girl
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I know exactly what ya mean.
It's because you never really had an attractive girl before. She starts to like you and you go sh!t this will be my first time with a hot girl and obsess about that fact. You explain it as getting oneitis for the girl.
Just remember that fact, you've probally fooled around with less attractive girls before, just think her as that.. don't worry if you fvck up.
It's because you never really had an attractive girl before. She starts to like you and you go sh!t this will be my first time with a hot girl and obsess about that fact. You explain it as getting oneitis for the girl.
Just remember that fact, you've probally fooled around with less attractive girls before, just think her as that.. don't worry if you fvck up.
yep, and both of them admitted to me that they cried over me. They weren't butt ass ugly but I never thought of them as hot or like a gf type id brag about. Thanks guys that was what i needed.Bvbidd said:
I was gonna meet up with her for a few minutes today and i flaked it because 1. i was sorta nervous and 2. i wanted to see if she lost intrest. Hahah, she texted me right after saying she didn't see me so I guess i'm still in the game. she texts me a lot i'm gonna take that as a positive.
If you want to NOT be a huge pansy about this anymore, go buy Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. It WILL de-wussify you. I GUARANTEE that. Then you will look back and laugh at your old self when you couldn't even eat before, now you WILL be eating 
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.