"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is why guys think they have to be the nice guy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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No wonder women sometimes get confused. After their sh!tty ex they'll think "I need a nice guy", so they find the guy who claims to be nice. After a while of that it turns out he's at least just as bad and on top of it a lying piece of sh!t, so they think "I need a guy that's at least honest" and back to the honest a$$holes they go...
The problem is that there's a bunch of a$$holes deluded into thinking of themselves as nice, that's why women hate the nice guy. What they want is a guy with a spine of course, but also genuinely nice. Women doesn't associate "niceguy" with a guy who's actually nice.
I think what makes such a guy is more complex than what just women say or post. I don't think these deluded pieces of sh!t would cease to exist if we removed that one tiny factor you mention.
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And "nice" or a class act is appreciated by an appropriate woman. But most that post these are hurt girls not women. Some are girls their entire life. They keep getting with the azzhole crook they ADMIRE and aspire to.
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This entire meme with all its innuendo and apparent wisdom, is from start to finish, a load of garbage.
A woman is responsible for who she sleeps with. She owns her “fukked up state”. It started off laying it all on a man. True some men are bastards. But she didn’t walk away.
The context is a political/social manipulation. It starts with a false premise and ends with an even worse premise. Lol
Yet she can walk away from a hard working man with no feelings whatsoever out of sheer boredom. Lol. Completely undamaged.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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That hard working man needs more self respect so hes not coddling these positions. Respect himself enough to respect his own time and his presence.
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The only way he can show that is to keep her as long as the intimacy is there. The mere act of committing to her or marrying her, limits him to her actions financially and otherwise. He cannot entertain a woman forever. The "honeymoon" will end. Unless of course he is the highest value she can get. This does not exclude sport sex, which can happen at any time due to the boredom. Kept women are spoiled into slutdom.
"Magua understand the English very well. They will put down their tomahawks to feed the laziness of their women."
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pucker up... buttercup!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Wrong, it's not guys thinking they must be nice because of that, it's because of their desperation for some pvssy that they're willing to sell even their own soul.
That's the nice guy.
The man without a backbone.
Like a jellyfish that floats around with the waves.
Which woman can be or feel safe with that?
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Agreed
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Sound strategy backseat.
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That is EXACTLY what I did a little over two years ago. I promise you, you will feel much more centered in very little time.
Also. I NEVER watch the news or listen to talk radio now. Your life will suddenly come alive.
I only listen to music with note combinations that inspire me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.