Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
And "nice" or a class act is appreciated by an appropriate woman. But most that post these are hurt girls not women. Some are girls their entire life. They keep getting with the azzhole crook they ADMIRE and aspire to.They see women posting **** like this all day, everyday and they think “well I can be nicer to her than her mean old ex was!”
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This entire meme with all its innuendo and apparent wisdom, is from start to finish, a load of garbage.They see women posting **** like this all day, everyday and they think “well I can be nicer to her than her mean old ex was!”
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That hard working man needs more self respect so hes not coddling these positions. Respect himself enough to respect his own time and his presence.This entire meme with all its innuendo and apparent wisdom, is from start to finish, a load of garbage.
A woman is responsible for who she sleeps with. She owns her “fukked up state”. It started off laying it all on a man. True some men are bastards. But she didn’t walk away.
The context is a political/social manipulation. It starts with a false premise and ends with an even worse premise. Lol
Yet she can walk away from a hard working man with no feelings whatsoever out of sheer boredom. Lol. Completely undamaged.
The only way he can show that is to keep her as long as the intimacy is there. The mere act of committing to her or marrying her, limits him to her actions financially and otherwise. He cannot entertain a woman forever. The "honeymoon" will end. Unless of course he is the highest value she can get. This does not exclude sport sex, which can happen at any time due to the boredom. Kept women are spoiled into slutdom.That hard working man needs more self respect so hes not coddling these positions. Respect himself enough to respect his own time and his presence.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They see women posting **** like this all day, everyday and they think “well I can be nicer to her than her mean old ex was!”
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AgreedWrong, it's not guys thinking they must be nice because of that, it's because of their desperation for some pvssy that they're willing to sell even their own soul.
That's the nice guy.
The man without a backbone.
Like a jellyfish that floats around with the waves.
Which woman can be or feel safe with that?
Sound strategy backseat.Sounds like you gotta clean up your social media. Unfriend all bellow average women and attention whres, and befriend rock stars, rappers, and hot business women.
That is EXACTLY what I did a little over two years ago. I promise you, you will feel much more centered in very little time.Sounds like you gotta clean up your social media. Unfriend all bellow average women and attention whres, and befriend rock stars, rappers, and hot business women.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.