You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And "nice" or a class act is appreciated by an appropriate woman. But most that post these are hurt girls not women. Some are girls their entire life. They keep getting with the azzhole crook they ADMIRE and aspire to.They see women posting **** like this all day, everyday and they think “well I can be nicer to her than her mean old ex was!”
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This entire meme with all its innuendo and apparent wisdom, is from start to finish, a load of garbage.They see women posting **** like this all day, everyday and they think “well I can be nicer to her than her mean old ex was!”
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That hard working man needs more self respect so hes not coddling these positions. Respect himself enough to respect his own time and his presence.This entire meme with all its innuendo and apparent wisdom, is from start to finish, a load of garbage.
A woman is responsible for who she sleeps with. She owns her “fukked up state”. It started off laying it all on a man. True some men are bastards. But she didn’t walk away.
The context is a political/social manipulation. It starts with a false premise and ends with an even worse premise. Lol
Yet she can walk away from a hard working man with no feelings whatsoever out of sheer boredom. Lol. Completely undamaged.
The only way he can show that is to keep her as long as the intimacy is there. The mere act of committing to her or marrying her, limits him to her actions financially and otherwise. He cannot entertain a woman forever. The "honeymoon" will end. Unless of course he is the highest value she can get. This does not exclude sport sex, which can happen at any time due to the boredom. Kept women are spoiled into slutdom.That hard working man needs more self respect so hes not coddling these positions. Respect himself enough to respect his own time and his presence.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
They see women posting **** like this all day, everyday and they think “well I can be nicer to her than her mean old ex was!”
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AgreedWrong, it's not guys thinking they must be nice because of that, it's because of their desperation for some pvssy that they're willing to sell even their own soul.
That's the nice guy.
The man without a backbone.
Like a jellyfish that floats around with the waves.
Which woman can be or feel safe with that?
Sound strategy backseat.Sounds like you gotta clean up your social media. Unfriend all bellow average women and attention whres, and befriend rock stars, rappers, and hot business women.
That is EXACTLY what I did a little over two years ago. I promise you, you will feel much more centered in very little time.Sounds like you gotta clean up your social media. Unfriend all bellow average women and attention whres, and befriend rock stars, rappers, and hot business women.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.