Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes, I have too even here in SoCal, land of the "beautiful" people. Lol
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
^Jack Nicholson clip "Because you're beautiful." LOL
Yoga and pilates are common exercises for women. Do you ever see men at your yoga and pilates classes who are there to do approaches? Dating coach Blaine Anderson has been known to send male clients to pilates to pick up women.
It's a good idea for women to do weight training. Lift progressively heavier as well. Too many women are concerned about getting too bulky. That's not going to happen for most women.
Southern California has been very image oriented over time. It's become a less desirable place to live for many reasons.
She looks good for her age.
I agree! It's one thing I really dislike about it and try to avoid people who embody that attitude and lifestyle.
