"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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After one or two years of improving myself/enjoying the single life/messing around with a few girls... I finally made one an official girlfriend tonight. I was in my car, and asked her if we were official while doing 110 down an abandoned road (the car and I can handle the turns). I thought that added a nice edge to it. She said yes, and all that good stuff. She had brought it up once or twice before, but I just blew it off.

So... With that said and done. How do I not suck at being a boyfriend? Not being too clingy. I don't want to move too fast, but would like to get some action everyonce in awhile.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by crimsonclockwork
So... With that said and done. How do I not suck at being a boyfriend? Not being too clingy. I don't want to move too fast, but would like to get some action everyonce in awhile.
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Just keep doing what you did to make her want to make it official. You may not know what that is necessarily, but don't stop. Lots of guys who win over the girl make that mistake, and it's a costly one.
 
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Re: Re: This is probably a new one... Need help

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Just keep doing what you did to make her want to make it official. You may not know what that is necessarily, but don't stop. Lots of guys who win over the girl make that mistake, and it's a costly one.
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Good advice. Obviously, what you did before got her, so why change it? Though sometimes variety does help. ;)
 
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Sometimes I feel like I am doing is not enough. Im talking about kino, sexually, ect. ect. She says Im one of the first guys shes talked about so much sex with before. Some simple tips though. Holding hands in public? good or boring? Slaping ass? (yea... I do it haha). Stuff like kino, but to the next level.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Holding hands? Eh. Holding her waist? Fun. Pulling "The Crook?" Great! If you don't know "The Crook," look for it. It's by "Deagleclaw."

Slap her ass? Hell yeah! I do it to my girl and she loves it! :D

What I like to do is get up behind her and hold her and then tickle her sides and stomach. Always a fun time.
 
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